Hello hello! Welcome to the first Tuesday of September
Are there any everyday forgotten manners/courtesies/etiquette that you miss or get annoyed with?
I do think society (Where I live in any case) is thankfully quite civil overall, minus the usual hiccups here and there. But there is one thing that often grinds my gears. And it always seems to happen to me - Like genuinely a good couple times a week. And all ages have been guilty of this. Happens at a lunch or dinner outing, workplace, shopping, beach etc
I would be talking with someone, whether a coworker or a friend or whomever, then a third person appears by chance whom my companion knows where they begin to greet and chat with one another, usually for a decent period of time. Topics I tend to be oblivious to. Leaving me, all of a sudden, out of the loop and completely third wheel, as if I no longer exist. Standing there or sitting there awkwardly. Sometimes they will even just walk away without saying anything.
My point is, It would be nice if there was an introduction. Like a simple "Oh Hey, Cassiopea! This is so-and-so, who is my _____, so-and-so, this is Cassiopea" That's all I want
nothing crazy fancy and don't need to suddenly become huge bonded besties or anything.
I know it might not be the hugest deal, but I was always big of making sure everyone felt inclusive (I myself have a long history of being excluded, which is another blah blah story for another day) If I am inbetween people who are strangers with one another it was within my dutiful power to introduce everyone to each other. It used to be done all the time, and I find it a very polite thing to do.
So that is what I wish, simple formal introductions. That is my mini vent
Hope I explained it clear enough!
Are there any everyday forgotten manners/courtesies/etiquette that you miss or get annoyed with?
I do think society (Where I live in any case) is thankfully quite civil overall, minus the usual hiccups here and there. But there is one thing that often grinds my gears. And it always seems to happen to me - Like genuinely a good couple times a week. And all ages have been guilty of this. Happens at a lunch or dinner outing, workplace, shopping, beach etc
I would be talking with someone, whether a coworker or a friend or whomever, then a third person appears by chance whom my companion knows where they begin to greet and chat with one another, usually for a decent period of time. Topics I tend to be oblivious to. Leaving me, all of a sudden, out of the loop and completely third wheel, as if I no longer exist. Standing there or sitting there awkwardly. Sometimes they will even just walk away without saying anything.
My point is, It would be nice if there was an introduction. Like a simple "Oh Hey, Cassiopea! This is so-and-so, who is my _____, so-and-so, this is Cassiopea" That's all I want
I know it might not be the hugest deal, but I was always big of making sure everyone felt inclusive (I myself have a long history of being excluded, which is another blah blah story for another day) If I am inbetween people who are strangers with one another it was within my dutiful power to introduce everyone to each other. It used to be done all the time, and I find it a very polite thing to do.
So that is what I wish, simple formal introductions. That is my mini vent
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