After work I stopped in at a GF's house who'd been having trouble downloading her emails through Live Mail. I had gone in about three weeks ago when she called me frantically and said her computer was all messed up. Well, when I got there then, her computer had upgraded to Win 10. Got it all straightened out, got her emails to come in. Part of her problem is that, for some reason, Kaspersky is messing around with her email and sometimes emails don't come in. After being on the phone with her ISP tech support for quite a while (it's not a problem on their end, but they were super nice and helped me anyway), we decided that, if she started to have trouble again, she simply could turn Kaspersky off, download her email, and then turn Kasperksy back on again. No, it's not the best solution, but it's the only one I can come up with....and her ISP agreed. (And, in fact, I've been having the same sort of trouble between Outlook 2013 and Kaspersky myself. Only in my case, Outlook refuses to download anything. I'm going online to get my email. It's a PITB, but at least I can get emails. I don't know what else to do and have tried other ways, but nothing is working.)
So anyway, she called me the other night and wanted me to come in right away because her email wasn't downloading anymore. I told her to turn Kasperksy off, download, then turn it back on. She said she had already done that and it didn't work. So I couldn't go in on Sunday and I was busy earlier this week. I went in yesterday. She told me that was fine.
Got there and she was in the midst of card club (which didn't make me amused because then she couldn't pay attention to what I was doing on her computer). Told me to go back to the room, turn the computer on, and do what I had to do. She didn't even bother to come back! How will somebody ever learn anything if they don't even try? I was frustrated.
Got the computer running, turned off Kaspersky, downloaded her email with no trouble whatsoever, turned Kaspersky back on, updated Kaspersky, and walked out to the kitchen.
"It's working fine now. Didn't you turn K off to try to download the emails?"
"Oh no, I was too tired the other day. That's what I have you for. So it's working OK?"
"Yes, your emails are downloaded. And I updated K while I was here."
"I was going to tell you to do that. But I don't like the way the emails are coming in. Fix it!"
"I'm sorry, I don't know how."
"Call somebody!"
"Your ISP tech support doesn't know how either, at this point."
"Well, you're no help!" And then she snickered.....and so did everybody else playing cards.
You know, I did what I could. I do not know how to fix the problem. If I did, I'd fix it on my own blasted computer, too. I suggested that she call the Geek Squad since she had bought the laptop from Best Buy. She didn't want to spend the money, not when I could do it for free. I noted that well, I hadn't been able to fix it. She said, "Yeah. I'm aware of that."
I left and came home. And the further I drove, the more.....peeved.....I got. Told Rick about it and we decided that that's the last time I work on her computer. She couldn't even come back to watch what I was doing, got all snotty with me because I couldn't fix the problem better, and basically told me that I was useless, in front of a room full of women I don't even know. I tried to get her to come back to the room with me, so that she might learn, but she wasn't remotely interested. And I sat back there by myself, working on her computer. I don't know; there's something wrong with that picture.
I'm done. I'm not going to let her take advantage of me like that again. It was rude, IMO.
So anyway, she called me the other night and wanted me to come in right away because her email wasn't downloading anymore. I told her to turn Kasperksy off, download, then turn it back on. She said she had already done that and it didn't work. So I couldn't go in on Sunday and I was busy earlier this week. I went in yesterday. She told me that was fine.
Got there and she was in the midst of card club (which didn't make me amused because then she couldn't pay attention to what I was doing on her computer). Told me to go back to the room, turn the computer on, and do what I had to do. She didn't even bother to come back! How will somebody ever learn anything if they don't even try? I was frustrated.
Got the computer running, turned off Kaspersky, downloaded her email with no trouble whatsoever, turned Kaspersky back on, updated Kaspersky, and walked out to the kitchen.
"It's working fine now. Didn't you turn K off to try to download the emails?"
"Oh no, I was too tired the other day. That's what I have you for. So it's working OK?"
"Yes, your emails are downloaded. And I updated K while I was here."
"I was going to tell you to do that. But I don't like the way the emails are coming in. Fix it!"
"I'm sorry, I don't know how."
"Call somebody!"
"Your ISP tech support doesn't know how either, at this point."
"Well, you're no help!" And then she snickered.....and so did everybody else playing cards.
You know, I did what I could. I do not know how to fix the problem. If I did, I'd fix it on my own blasted computer, too. I suggested that she call the Geek Squad since she had bought the laptop from Best Buy. She didn't want to spend the money, not when I could do it for free. I noted that well, I hadn't been able to fix it. She said, "Yeah. I'm aware of that."
I left and came home. And the further I drove, the more.....peeved.....I got. Told Rick about it and we decided that that's the last time I work on her computer. She couldn't even come back to watch what I was doing, got all snotty with me because I couldn't fix the problem better, and basically told me that I was useless, in front of a room full of women I don't even know. I tried to get her to come back to the room with me, so that she might learn, but she wasn't remotely interested. And I sat back there by myself, working on her computer. I don't know; there's something wrong with that picture.
I'm done. I'm not going to let her take advantage of me like that again. It was rude, IMO.