Their cat (Miss Kitty) came first. She's got to be at least 2-3 years old. My mom adopted her from the ASPCA when she was just a little kitten. From day 1 she's been a very shy, sketchy kitty. You can't reach down to pet her without her flinching or running away. I'm definitely not her favorite person, she mostly just tolerates me.
My baby boy (Mr. Sniffles, after his respiratory infection) came in to the picture last November (2015). I found him at my work. He was a tiny, feral kitten (all of the cats over there are feral). But he was so tiny, and so very sick. He had a horrible upper respiratory infection. Obviously, I couldn't just leave him. Though he was feral, he came to everyone at my work with this sad, "help me" look in his eyes. My plan was to take him to the shelter the next day, but my boyfriend and I fell in love with him in just 1 night. So instead, we decided to keep him and make a vet appointment. He got his meds, now he's a healthy, big boy. Personality is the exact opposite of Miss Kitty. He's very social, he loves being around people and very hyper. He also plays a little rough. He likes to bite (not hard, very gentle for a big boy). But he likes to pounce and ambush and then just run away. It's very cute.
Both cats are fixed, by the way.
He was living at my boyfriend's house for a few months. I would bring him over once in a while to meet my parents' cat, and it never went smoothly. But we tried to do it slowly, we didn't want to overwhelm anybody. Each day, we introduced them a little bit more, and it didn't seem to help. Miss Kitty just won't give him the time of day.
Around the beginning of March or so, there was an issue with where my boyfriend was staying, so him and Mr. Sniffles moved in with us. We would keep them separated, and never left them alone together. They are both inside/ outside cats. They do basically whatever they want to do, and are excellent hunters.
It's obvious that Miss Kitty is afraid of Mr. Sniffles. She will run and hide from him, which then excites Mr. Sniffles, and he chases and pounces the way that he loves to play. He does show dominant behavior over Miss Kitty, and has caused her to start spraying all over the house. He eats out of her food bowl, sleeps on and scratches her cat tree and uses her litter box. I separate them when they start fighting, I move Mr. Sniffles into a different room and leave him with his favorite toy. Once he has calmed, I will open the door and let him come out on his own time. I have tried the squirt bottle thing and it hasn't worked. I'm running out of ideas and methods, and I need help. Does anyone have any advise for me?
My baby boy (Mr. Sniffles, after his respiratory infection) came in to the picture last November (2015). I found him at my work. He was a tiny, feral kitten (all of the cats over there are feral). But he was so tiny, and so very sick. He had a horrible upper respiratory infection. Obviously, I couldn't just leave him. Though he was feral, he came to everyone at my work with this sad, "help me" look in his eyes. My plan was to take him to the shelter the next day, but my boyfriend and I fell in love with him in just 1 night. So instead, we decided to keep him and make a vet appointment. He got his meds, now he's a healthy, big boy. Personality is the exact opposite of Miss Kitty. He's very social, he loves being around people and very hyper. He also plays a little rough. He likes to bite (not hard, very gentle for a big boy). But he likes to pounce and ambush and then just run away. It's very cute.
Both cats are fixed, by the way.
He was living at my boyfriend's house for a few months. I would bring him over once in a while to meet my parents' cat, and it never went smoothly. But we tried to do it slowly, we didn't want to overwhelm anybody. Each day, we introduced them a little bit more, and it didn't seem to help. Miss Kitty just won't give him the time of day.
Around the beginning of March or so, there was an issue with where my boyfriend was staying, so him and Mr. Sniffles moved in with us. We would keep them separated, and never left them alone together. They are both inside/ outside cats. They do basically whatever they want to do, and are excellent hunters.
It's obvious that Miss Kitty is afraid of Mr. Sniffles. She will run and hide from him, which then excites Mr. Sniffles, and he chases and pounces the way that he loves to play. He does show dominant behavior over Miss Kitty, and has caused her to start spraying all over the house. He eats out of her food bowl, sleeps on and scratches her cat tree and uses her litter box. I separate them when they start fighting, I move Mr. Sniffles into a different room and leave him with his favorite toy. Once he has calmed, I will open the door and let him come out on his own time. I have tried the squirt bottle thing and it hasn't worked. I'm running out of ideas and methods, and I need help. Does anyone have any advise for me?