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We adopted 1-year-old Pika two months ago. She's the sweetest kitten we could ever imagine - well, for the most part. In the past few weeks, she's scared me quite a bit due to her aggression toward me (but not toward my boyfriend).
My boyfriend is home 24/7 in the summer. I work full-time. My boyfriend feeds Pika most of the time, but she almost always stays by my side whenever I'm home. She constantly meows at me for attention. When my boyfriend is alone with Pika, he plays with her occasionally. Pika mostly hangs out on her own although she occasionally meows at my boyfriend and "asks" him to pet her.
When I get home at night, I spend most of my time working on my computer/reading in bed. At the beginning, I noticed if I sat up with a blanket covering my legs, Pika would hunt the blanket whenever my legs move. I stopped covering my legs later, hoping exposing my legs would tell Pika they are part of me, not her prey. It didn't seem to work. Pika stills hunts them whenever my legs moved. More recently, the situation exacerbated. Even if I don't move my legs, she reaches out her paws at them once in a while. I would get scared and retreat my legs while pushing her to the side. She would come back to me seconds later like nothing ever happened. Even if I sit up while crossing my legs, she would still reach out for my toes. In addition to my legs, she also got interested in my arms. She started reaching out her paws to "test out" my arms recently. I almost felt like she's treating my body as a prey that she can mess with.
I do have playtime with her (three 10-minute sessions every night) but it doesn't seem to solve the problem. What's more frustrating is she only does this to me. If I'm sitting in the bed with my boyfriend, she wouldn't hunt our blankets when we move our legs. She tends to just hang out on her own when I'm with him. She never "hunts" my boyfriend when they're alone in the day.
Why is this happening and how can I change the situation? My boyfriend is a big guy and I'm small and skinny compared to him, but is that the reason? I live in a studio so I'm stuck with Pika whenever I'm home. I love her to death when she's not in the hunting mode, however it terrifies me when she reaches out her paws. To be honest, it doesn't hurt much when she hunts me, but I've been scared of sudden movements since I was young. The thought that she could be jumping at me any moment terrifies me.
My boyfriend is home 24/7 in the summer. I work full-time. My boyfriend feeds Pika most of the time, but she almost always stays by my side whenever I'm home. She constantly meows at me for attention. When my boyfriend is alone with Pika, he plays with her occasionally. Pika mostly hangs out on her own although she occasionally meows at my boyfriend and "asks" him to pet her.
When I get home at night, I spend most of my time working on my computer/reading in bed. At the beginning, I noticed if I sat up with a blanket covering my legs, Pika would hunt the blanket whenever my legs move. I stopped covering my legs later, hoping exposing my legs would tell Pika they are part of me, not her prey. It didn't seem to work. Pika stills hunts them whenever my legs moved. More recently, the situation exacerbated. Even if I don't move my legs, she reaches out her paws at them once in a while. I would get scared and retreat my legs while pushing her to the side. She would come back to me seconds later like nothing ever happened. Even if I sit up while crossing my legs, she would still reach out for my toes. In addition to my legs, she also got interested in my arms. She started reaching out her paws to "test out" my arms recently. I almost felt like she's treating my body as a prey that she can mess with.
I do have playtime with her (three 10-minute sessions every night) but it doesn't seem to solve the problem. What's more frustrating is she only does this to me. If I'm sitting in the bed with my boyfriend, she wouldn't hunt our blankets when we move our legs. She tends to just hang out on her own when I'm with him. She never "hunts" my boyfriend when they're alone in the day.
Why is this happening and how can I change the situation? My boyfriend is a big guy and I'm small and skinny compared to him, but is that the reason? I live in a studio so I'm stuck with Pika whenever I'm home. I love her to death when she's not in the hunting mode, however it terrifies me when she reaches out her paws. To be honest, it doesn't hurt much when she hunts me, but I've been scared of sudden movements since I was young. The thought that she could be jumping at me any moment terrifies me.