Inari | Spayed (13 weeks | 4 months old)
Sebastian | Neutered (11 months)
2 weeks ago, I adopted Inari. I got her to be a companion and play mate for Sebastian. My dogs are older and just didn't want to be bothered with him. Sebastian is 11 months old, but got her when it was 10 months. So yea, he jus had a 'birthday.' So, anyway, during the time, I've been introducing them. Feeding them either side of a closed door and scent swapping. What I am doing is, one cat spends 4 hours roaming the house. Then, they are put away in their own room and I let out the other. Sebastian has a room we call the den and he is able to see Inari out in the living room. At times, she does go to the door.
When feeding, I would close it and then I tried having the door open twice, but there's a problem. Inari will come out, while having the wet food just like Sebastian and go to his plate. I have to put her back in so she can finish her plate, but Sebastian doesn't like it. He backs away from his food and I have to back his plate away from the door so he can finish. After eating, I crack open the door and they are able to see, sniff, and play through the door. They would paw and play through the door and at times, Sebastian or Inari will squeeze through the crack. I have to hold the door knob because Sebastian is so strong, he will push it open and I have to hold it and he pushes hard when no being able to open it with me holding the handle. If Inari leaves her room, or Sebastian slips through, at the sight of my older kitten, Inari rolls onto her side, ears pinned back, tail around herself, and hisses. She swats at Sebastian and he is jus a tad taken back. Just a couple days ago when introducing them, Sebastian has licked her fur, but she is all, in the position I described above and swatting at him.
At times, Sebastian as chased and pounced at her, causing her to squeak. I went in and picked up Sebastian and took him to his room. Inari will also hide from him. When Sebby isn't around, she is a different cat. Confident and running around the living room. When he walks in, all her confidence is done.
I am not sure what to do. Sebastian I think, I think wants to play, but ruff. How do I teach him to play nice? How can I get Inari to not be afraid of him? I want them to be friends.
Sebastian | Neutered (11 months)
2 weeks ago, I adopted Inari. I got her to be a companion and play mate for Sebastian. My dogs are older and just didn't want to be bothered with him. Sebastian is 11 months old, but got her when it was 10 months. So yea, he jus had a 'birthday.' So, anyway, during the time, I've been introducing them. Feeding them either side of a closed door and scent swapping. What I am doing is, one cat spends 4 hours roaming the house. Then, they are put away in their own room and I let out the other. Sebastian has a room we call the den and he is able to see Inari out in the living room. At times, she does go to the door.
When feeding, I would close it and then I tried having the door open twice, but there's a problem. Inari will come out, while having the wet food just like Sebastian and go to his plate. I have to put her back in so she can finish her plate, but Sebastian doesn't like it. He backs away from his food and I have to back his plate away from the door so he can finish. After eating, I crack open the door and they are able to see, sniff, and play through the door. They would paw and play through the door and at times, Sebastian or Inari will squeeze through the crack. I have to hold the door knob because Sebastian is so strong, he will push it open and I have to hold it and he pushes hard when no being able to open it with me holding the handle. If Inari leaves her room, or Sebastian slips through, at the sight of my older kitten, Inari rolls onto her side, ears pinned back, tail around herself, and hisses. She swats at Sebastian and he is jus a tad taken back. Just a couple days ago when introducing them, Sebastian has licked her fur, but she is all, in the position I described above and swatting at him.
At times, Sebastian as chased and pounced at her, causing her to squeak. I went in and picked up Sebastian and took him to his room. Inari will also hide from him. When Sebby isn't around, she is a different cat. Confident and running around the living room. When he walks in, all her confidence is done.
I am not sure what to do. Sebastian I think, I think wants to play, but ruff. How do I teach him to play nice? How can I get Inari to not be afraid of him? I want them to be friends.