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Dear all, I really need your help. So sorry for the wall of text, but I hope you will read this!
My little male cat, Ham is being all depressed. He's 1 years old and he's not neutered (indoor cat). Me and my boyfriend were gonna neuter him when he would start spraying, that hasn't happened though.
On to the problem. Two weeks ago we went to the pet store and got a little bit of cat nip, since our other cat, Finn (neutered), was being stressed and we wanted them to play together and have a nice day. And they sure did! It was so fun to see.
My boyfriend usually empties the cat litter in the evening, but that night for some reason he forgot. I woke up to both cats meowing constantly, and I figured it had something to do with the cat litter. I was about to get dressed, when little Ham peed in our clothes. He accidentally stepped all over the pee and started walking all over the house. I clapped loudly to get them out of our bedroom, where the incident happened because they didn't want to get out, and I had to clean up the mess. I really regret clapping now.
I cleaned everything, but our home still smelled like strong pee, and we saw small wet paw marks all over the floor. Little Hammy was hiding in the basement and me and my boyfriend agreed that we had to clean his paws, otherwise he would walk all over the place with pee on them. I let my boyfriend pet him and tell him everything was okay, but the little guy was so scared. I prepared a bowl of warm water with a little cat shampoo in it. Obviously he hated the water, but we had to hold him still and wash all paws, and when we were done we let him go.
He ran up to our bedroom and stayed under our bed for the rest of the day. He didn't come out till we had gone to sleep. I figured it was normal, since he was probably a bit sad. I gave him space and time and slow blinked at him whenever our eyes would meet.
The next day he came out in the morning for a bit, but as soon as we got out of bed he cowered and ran under the bed again. He stayed there the rest of the day as well, only coming out at night around 10 PM to eat a little. As soon as we see him out we greet him, and as I was trying to pet him, he runs under the bed again. This routine would repeat itself for a few days. During that time we found out that Finn had fleas, so we had to give them both medicine and wash blankets and stuff they nap on. We had to get Ham out from under the bed. It's so strange because he would purr and blink at us and we could pet him fine under the bed. But as soon as he gets out, he gets all freaked out.
Then he chose our closet for a hiding spot to sleep in all day (for 3-4 days) and now it's a cat tree with a little house that he's hiding in all day. He's sleeping while he's in there, and when we go to pet him, it takes a while for him to warm up and purr, though it does happen.
Also he just refuses to play. He finds no interest in strings and toys (he used to go crazy over those) now he just looks away.
I've already taken him to the vet, and he got a check up and everything was fine. The vet recommended some cat oils with pheromones I could spray in the house, so I'll try and get that soon.
What do you guys think I should do? Should I leave him be the whole day, or should I try to interact with him? He doesn't look like he's terrified, just really submissive and depressed. Like he has no confidence.
Thank you so much for reading all this! I miss my little Hammy.
Lana
My little male cat, Ham is being all depressed. He's 1 years old and he's not neutered (indoor cat). Me and my boyfriend were gonna neuter him when he would start spraying, that hasn't happened though.
On to the problem. Two weeks ago we went to the pet store and got a little bit of cat nip, since our other cat, Finn (neutered), was being stressed and we wanted them to play together and have a nice day. And they sure did! It was so fun to see.
My boyfriend usually empties the cat litter in the evening, but that night for some reason he forgot. I woke up to both cats meowing constantly, and I figured it had something to do with the cat litter. I was about to get dressed, when little Ham peed in our clothes. He accidentally stepped all over the pee and started walking all over the house. I clapped loudly to get them out of our bedroom, where the incident happened because they didn't want to get out, and I had to clean up the mess. I really regret clapping now.
I cleaned everything, but our home still smelled like strong pee, and we saw small wet paw marks all over the floor. Little Hammy was hiding in the basement and me and my boyfriend agreed that we had to clean his paws, otherwise he would walk all over the place with pee on them. I let my boyfriend pet him and tell him everything was okay, but the little guy was so scared. I prepared a bowl of warm water with a little cat shampoo in it. Obviously he hated the water, but we had to hold him still and wash all paws, and when we were done we let him go.
He ran up to our bedroom and stayed under our bed for the rest of the day. He didn't come out till we had gone to sleep. I figured it was normal, since he was probably a bit sad. I gave him space and time and slow blinked at him whenever our eyes would meet.
The next day he came out in the morning for a bit, but as soon as we got out of bed he cowered and ran under the bed again. He stayed there the rest of the day as well, only coming out at night around 10 PM to eat a little. As soon as we see him out we greet him, and as I was trying to pet him, he runs under the bed again. This routine would repeat itself for a few days. During that time we found out that Finn had fleas, so we had to give them both medicine and wash blankets and stuff they nap on. We had to get Ham out from under the bed. It's so strange because he would purr and blink at us and we could pet him fine under the bed. But as soon as he gets out, he gets all freaked out.
Then he chose our closet for a hiding spot to sleep in all day (for 3-4 days) and now it's a cat tree with a little house that he's hiding in all day. He's sleeping while he's in there, and when we go to pet him, it takes a while for him to warm up and purr, though it does happen.
Also he just refuses to play. He finds no interest in strings and toys (he used to go crazy over those) now he just looks away.
I've already taken him to the vet, and he got a check up and everything was fine. The vet recommended some cat oils with pheromones I could spray in the house, so I'll try and get that soon.
What do you guys think I should do? Should I leave him be the whole day, or should I try to interact with him? He doesn't look like he's terrified, just really submissive and depressed. Like he has no confidence.
Thank you so much for reading all this! I miss my little Hammy.
Lana