Hello,
I am fairly new to this site although I have read articles on here before. My current situation requires a lot of thinking and I was hoping fellow feline lovers could help.
In Sept of last year I had to say goodbye to my cat Felix. I had adopted him when he was about 8 so that made his final age around 21.
Now, I have Oscar. I found him outside as a kitten 16 years ago. He is the first cat I have ever had and the first pet since living on my own. To say he is my baby is an understatement. Everyone who has met him has stated they never met a cat with so much personality. He has been Velcro on my side since we first met. I have to pick him up and carry him around, we have conversations, he has to investigate everything (and I mean everything), and I can't leave a room without him getting up and following me. He is my shadow.
I noticed over the past month or so he looked thin. We went to the vet (he is a stellar patient) and there was nothing out of the ordinary found. An ultrasound of his intestines was suggested since he was losing weight.
The ultrasound revealed some type of mass in the vicinity of his liver/kidney/gallbladder but without exploratory surgery (at around $2000) there is no way to determine exactly what it is.
Unfortunately, I don't have $2000 to spend on the surgery. Oscar has a heart murmur, which I have known about for quite some time, and I also fear putting him under anesthesia. There is a possibility he may not wake up and this is a risk I'm not willing to take.
We have been doing weekly b-12 shots to help his appetite and any malnutrition in addition to daily prednisone. This has been going on for about 3 weeks. In his prime Oscar weighted around 11 lbs. Today, he weighed in at 6 lbs even. That is a loss of 8 oz from last week.
His personality still seems to be ok, with the slight slowing down associated with age. He does have very loose stool, though not frequent, so I don't want to change his diet and upset him.
I am at a crossroads. Oscar has been my best friend and buddy for the past 16 years. People may say you can't get that emotionally attached to an animal, especially a cat (since they are often viewed as aloof and independent) but I know fellow cat lovers will understand the bond. He is my life. He is, for all intents and purposes, my child. We have been through so much together.
What are any suggestions on how to do a bucket list for cats? He, as all my cats are, is an indoor only cat so I won't let him wander outside. I want to give him everything I can in whatever time we have left together. I can't imagine coming home without him running to greet me. Any suggestions are welcome. I'm hoping to attach a picture of him. He's one in a million.
Thank you for listening,
Nancy
I am fairly new to this site although I have read articles on here before. My current situation requires a lot of thinking and I was hoping fellow feline lovers could help.
In Sept of last year I had to say goodbye to my cat Felix. I had adopted him when he was about 8 so that made his final age around 21.
Now, I have Oscar. I found him outside as a kitten 16 years ago. He is the first cat I have ever had and the first pet since living on my own. To say he is my baby is an understatement. Everyone who has met him has stated they never met a cat with so much personality. He has been Velcro on my side since we first met. I have to pick him up and carry him around, we have conversations, he has to investigate everything (and I mean everything), and I can't leave a room without him getting up and following me. He is my shadow.
I noticed over the past month or so he looked thin. We went to the vet (he is a stellar patient) and there was nothing out of the ordinary found. An ultrasound of his intestines was suggested since he was losing weight.
The ultrasound revealed some type of mass in the vicinity of his liver/kidney/gallbladder but without exploratory surgery (at around $2000) there is no way to determine exactly what it is.
Unfortunately, I don't have $2000 to spend on the surgery. Oscar has a heart murmur, which I have known about for quite some time, and I also fear putting him under anesthesia. There is a possibility he may not wake up and this is a risk I'm not willing to take.
We have been doing weekly b-12 shots to help his appetite and any malnutrition in addition to daily prednisone. This has been going on for about 3 weeks. In his prime Oscar weighted around 11 lbs. Today, he weighed in at 6 lbs even. That is a loss of 8 oz from last week.
His personality still seems to be ok, with the slight slowing down associated with age. He does have very loose stool, though not frequent, so I don't want to change his diet and upset him.
I am at a crossroads. Oscar has been my best friend and buddy for the past 16 years. People may say you can't get that emotionally attached to an animal, especially a cat (since they are often viewed as aloof and independent) but I know fellow cat lovers will understand the bond. He is my life. He is, for all intents and purposes, my child. We have been through so much together.
What are any suggestions on how to do a bucket list for cats? He, as all my cats are, is an indoor only cat so I won't let him wander outside. I want to give him everything I can in whatever time we have left together. I can't imagine coming home without him running to greet me. Any suggestions are welcome. I'm hoping to attach a picture of him. He's one in a million.
Thank you for listening,
Nancy