Help! She is not nursing!

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Ok, let me just describe the situation.

We have two females, both about 1 year old. For both, it's their first litter. The one gave birth about 2 weeks ago, 3 kittens, everything ok.

The other female gave birth yesterday at night, 4 kittens.

But she is not nursing the kittens respective shows very nervous/anxious behaviour.

After the birth, she looks and acts normal and also eats, but is at times breathing VERY FAST (hyperventilating), so first suspected that there is a problem like a stuck other kitten or stuck placenta. But then there is no evidence for this. It is possible that she is hyperventilating simply from nervousness/stress. YES WE WILL GO THE VET TODAY to see what is going on there.

What happens, we put HER kittens in nice boxes in the middle bed room or closet, but she doesn't go into the box to nurse them. Instead, she moves them to places like under the bed...and SHOCK, today in the morning I found the 4 kittens in our shopping trolley..where I can't even remotely manage how she managed this since the shopping trolley stands upright.

But this is not the problem! We know that cats often move their litter! If she moved the kittens under the bed, and would attend to them, this would be ok.

But she doesn't!

She moves the kittens and then wants to leave the room, she doesn't nurse them, even if the kittens scream their head off.

Obviously we have the OTHER mother now nursing them (she is now nursing two litters), without the other female we would be in big trouble.
(The new mama does all that stupid stuff like moving kittens to odd places, it was the OTHER mama who grabbed the kittens again, put them in the box and actually nursed them! If I let the actual mama in the room now, I know she'd just grab the babies and put them under the bed again, and then nothing)

It is obvious that "something is wrong" with the second mama, right now she is sleeping/resting on my desk again but still breathing fast. And we guess it is this that something is "wrong" with her that she is also not nursing the kittens.

As for the other mama, she is VERY exhausted/tired right now as it seems from having to do the two jobs...and just a minute or so ago she threw up some foam. so she doesn't seem perfectly well either. I just let her out of the nursing room, she is resting in the bathroom now, very tired.

* Stress galore right now, since we constantly have to move the cat from one litter to the other to make sure that both are fed. The REAL mother we cant let to her kittens right now since I know she's just moving them but not nursing.

Any advice is appreciated, also in how to best give kitten replacement milk which we hope will get from the vet later today. It is sort of a pain with the syringe.
 

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Okay, you already know you have an emergency on your hands. Get the KMR asap! Give both moms a dish of it to drink ASAP, for their calcium levels.

Take the errant mum and put her in a room alone with her kittens. Sit with her and see that all of her kittens are latched and nursing. If mom is in a quiet, private place to herself, where she feels that she and her kittens are safe, she should relax and feed them. This can even be a bathroom.

The other mom also needs her very own space with her kittens. She should settle as well if she has privacy and no stress.

If this does not work, let me know. You will be hand-feeding kittens around the clock otherwise, though I do not think this will be necessary if you take the time to settle each mom and litter separately.
 
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Ok wife was at the vet with the one mama, she had a little higher temp than normal, he gave her the usual shots...and she was feeling better more or less instantly.
She actually nursed HER three (the older) babies again shortly after the vet.

We got the cat milk and a bottle, but it turned out a total pain in the ass, no matter what we try, we cannot get them to drink. The fact that most youtube videos showing bottle feeding kittens have much older kittens doesn't really help.

ONE of the kittens from the new litter sadly died, it already showed signs of weaknesses before and was often separated from the others, I honestly expected it won't make it ;(

But here are some good news:

The errant mom slowly starts caring for her babies somewhat, sometimes I need to really SHOVE her into that shopping trolley (where she has her nest now), and it looks like she is actually nursing them, cleaning them etc. I also put a towel in front and only leave a small opening (and yes they are in a separate room), and she DOES now actually seem relaxed, and even naps while the others are nursing. This is extremely good news because before we couldn't keep her in there longer than 5 minutes. I think this is the best thing we can do right now, that the kittens are with their actual mamas. So keep fingers crossed, I hope the remaining make it. I am SO relived when they are in there and don't scream, because nothing is worse than hearing them screaming, you know they're hungry and you know the cats doesn't nurse them. *Right now* things look better.

Update:

Ok, she was in there for much longer than an hour, and she is relaxing and sleeping while nursing.
Just a minute ago, she came out, I gave her some of the KMR. (Thanks for this idea!!! I suspected that the exhaustion of the other mama could've been related to calcium deficit, brilliant to give them the milk too, I honestly wouldn't have thought about this!!)

Here is why I am so happy: She heard the others screaming from the room, and IMMEDIATELY went back to them.
(It's also possible that the larger litter, and she being a 1st time mama, overwhelmed her. Now with the three remaining, just some hours ago I didn't have much hope for the liter, but things looking better now)
 
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I had 12 kittens that 2 Queens co-nursed.  The Mom of the 8 kittens did get very ill from exhaustion. Please do give her KMR, unlimited kibble, wet kitten food (I fed the Queesn 4-6 times a day) and  I even gave them  nutrical, as well. I'm so happy to hear that she's begun taking care of her babies.
 

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Ok wife was at the vet with the one mama, she had a little higher temp than normal, he gave her the usual shots...and she was feeling better more or less instantly.
She actually nursed HER three (the older) babies again shortly after the vet.

We got the cat milk and a bottle, but it turned out a total pain in the ass, no matter what we try, we cannot get them to drink. The fact that most youtube videos showing bottle feeding kittens have much older kittens doesn't really help.

ONE of the kittens from the new litter sadly died, it already showed signs of weaknesses before and was often separated from the others, I honestly expected it won't make it ;(

But here are some good news:

The errant mom slowly starts caring for her babies somewhat, sometimes I need to really SHOVE her into that shopping trolley (where she has her nest now), and it looks like she is actually nursing them, cleaning them etc. I also put a towel in front and only leave a small opening (and yes they are in a separate room), and she DOES now actually seem relaxed, and even naps while the others are nursing. This is extremely good news because before we couldn't keep her in there longer than 5 minutes. I think this is the best thing we can do right now, that the kittens are with their actual mamas. So keep fingers crossed, I hope the remaining make it. I am SO relived when they are in there and don't scream, because nothing is worse than hearing them screaming, you know they're hungry and you know the cats doesn't nurse them. *Right now* things look better.

Update:

Ok, she was in there for much longer than an hour, and she is relaxing and sleeping while nursing.
Just a minute ago, she came out, I gave her some of the KMR. (Thanks for this idea!!! I suspected that the exhaustion of the other mama could've been related to calcium deficit, brilliant to give them the milk too, I honestly wouldn't have thought about this!!)

Here is why I am so happy: She heard the others screaming from the room, and IMMEDIATELY went back to them.
(It's also possible that the larger litter, and she being a 1st time mama, overwhelmed her. Now with the three remaining, just some hours ago I didn't have much hope for the liter, but things looking better now)
Kittens whom have access to a momma are often very reluctant to take bottle.  So you are practically forced to use a needleless syring.  Tummy down, head up, dropwise in corner of the cheek, burp afterwards.

You can also try with a little sponge.  Probably most sponges will do, but the usual advice is to use such a little sponge for make up. You have the kmr or goats milk on it, the kitten suckles on it, and you held the syringe in your other hand and drop on the sponge...

You can also use goats milk - deifintely as supplement for the mommas, but in fact, it works also for the kittens.  Use a full fat variation, ie at 3% or more.
 
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