Lexi Crossed the Bridge today...........5/10/2000 - 6/29/2016

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Lexi, my daughter's beautiful little 5-pound calico, crossed the Bridge today.  I was her Nana.  Lexi had just reached her 16th birthday on May 10, so she made it past her Sweet Sixteen.  She was taken to the vet in March for a normal senior wellness check and blood work.  The blood work showed that she had the metabolic profile of a four-year-old!  However, during that appointment, the vet found a mass near her kidney.  She had an ultrasound, and a needle biopsy was done, but the results were inconclusive, although suspicious for lymphoma.  We immediately took her to an oncologist who said, due to Lexi's size and age, that she wasn't a surgical candidate.  Without surgery and a definitive diagnosis, chemo was not an option.  Two additional aspirations were inconclusive as well.  Lexi had problems with her back legs beginning shortly after the mass was found, due to the cancer effecting the lower lymph nodes, but she powered through like a champ.  When she was examined today, she could no longer move those little legs.  The vet said that the cancer had wrapped around her spinal column and asked if Lexi had been twitching lately.  She had, for the last three days, and he said that meant that it had invaded her spinal cord.  We made the decision to let her go, since everything conceivable both medically and alternatively had been tried and had failed.  Normally, a cat will live 2-4 weeks after diagnosis, but Lexi was a brave tiny fighter and she lived three months to the day from the time the mass was found.  Such courage!

When Lexi was a small kitten getting into everything, she crawled up inside the lining of a chair, couldn't get out, and was traumatized by that experience.  As a result, she was always a bit stand-offish.  But over the past three months, she became a little cuddle bug, giving and demanding love and attention, a complete about-face!  She slept in her mom's arms and had her right beside her all day yesterday and last night.  She was the best little girl, going through all kinds of invasive treatments with calmness and courage, being still and never complaining.  Such a good girl.  She leaves behind a loving pet and human family.  She was very much loved and will be so greatly missed.  She joins her brothers and sisters who crossed the Bridge before her and I know that they are all so happy and excited to see her today and were waiting for her.  Romp and play in peace, our darling girl.  No more suffering for you, sweetheart, no more confusion about why your body no longer worked as it should.  We will be with you again some day and until that time, you will forever be in our hearts.  We are so much better for having known and loved you, and for being loved by you, and we thank God for choosing us to be your family. We will ALWAYS love you, little peanut, and will cherish our beautiful memories of you until that joyful day when we are reunited.  We love you, Lexi baby, always and forever.

 
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Oh how I love and miss you my sweet baby!!  Remember what I told you "you're my pretty, precious, perfect, peanut princess and you are the bravest, strongest baby ever, my little warrior...and remember, this is not goodbye, just goodbye for now...I'll be with you again soon...I love you my angel, Fly High and Free"  <3
 

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I am so sorry to learn the news of Lexi.  When your mom informed me last night on sweet Lexi's turn, my heart sank.  I was really praying that you had more time with your sweet girl, as I did with my sweet boy Simon.  

I was telling your mom that it's going on 3 weeks and I'm just as heartbroken as the day I found out he had cancer.  I wish I had words of comfort, but I've been in a fog this past month and truthfully your mother has been a main player in giving  me much needed inspiration during this grieving period.  I don't know what I would have done without her words of comfort these past few weeks.  She is an angel. 

I'm here for you both.

Again, I'm so sorry and at a loss for words at this time.  Warmest regards, Hope
 

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I am so sorry to hear of Lexi's passing. You showed your true love by letting her go before things got worse. Its the hardest thing in the world, to know if we did the right thing. But I know in my heart you did everything possible. May Lexi run free at the Bridge now along with all our beloved babies who will be showing her how to use her wings. 
 

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Thank you so very much!  She was one special baby.  I know you know all too well that they take a piece of your heart with them when they go...I have kept you in my prayers because I know what it is to be in that fog...I feel like I have fallen deeper into that pit that I fell in when I lost 4 in 2014 (I never really climbed out) ...it just never gets any easier...it broke my heart for you when mom told me of Simon's passing but you were so  AMAZING with him and to him...I don't know how you did it...I guess that unconditional love will give us strength we never knew we had when we need it the most.  

I continue to pray that you will find peace and comfort...no more pain and suffering for our little ones..our babies are free!!  <3
 

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Thank you so very much!  She was one special baby.  I know you know all too well that they take a piece of your heart with them when they go...I have kept you in my prayers because I know what it is to be in that fog...I feel like I have fallen deeper into that pit that I fell in when I lost 4 in 2014 (I never really climbed out) ...it just never gets any easier...it broke my heart for you when mom told me of Simon's passing but you were so  AMAZING with him and to him...I don't know how you did it...I guess that unconditional love will give us strength we never knew we had when we need it the most.  

I continue to pray that you will find peace and comfort...no more pain and suffering for our little ones..our babies are free!!  <3
Thank you.  Everyday it gets a little easier until I forget about it then turn around to look at him and he's not there.  I've been getting through it because of people like your mom.  I feel as if I've met you and Lexi as I've been following your journey as well with great admiration.  Losing 4 in one year, I can't even comprehend being in that situation.  It was the strong support I received from this site that helped me in times of doubt.

I have a candle lit for your sweet girl which is right next to Simon's ashes and his candle.  Please know I am here for you, as your mother was here for me.  I've kind of adopted her as a "wise speaking mother figure" if you don't mind. LOL.  @MaggieMay  has a way with words that calm me in times of sadness.  Again, as I've told her many times, you two are so very lucky to have each other.

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Thank you.  Everyday it gets a little easier until I forget about it then turn around to look at him and he's not there.  I've been getting through it because of people like your mom.  I feel as if I've met you and Lexi as I've been following your journey as well with great admiration.  Losing 4 in one year, I can't even comprehend being in that situation.  It was the strong support I received from this site that helped me in times of doubt.

I have a candle lit for your sweet girl which is right next to Simon's ashes and his candle.  Please know I am here for you, as your mother was here for me.  I've kind of adopted her as a "wise speaking mother figure" if you don't mind. LOL.  @MaggieMay  has a way with words that calm me in times of sadness.  Again, as I've told her many times, you two are so very lucky to have each other.

Thoughts & Prayers.
That is so sweet that you have a candle lit for her, of course I'm tearing up just reading that....I've told mom what  a special person you are, to be able to show your love, concern, and support for these other babies after all you have gone through!  I will have Lexi's ashes back soon, hopefully...I just can't believe that I have to add her to my memory wall...I was so hoping and praying that I would not have to add another face to that wall anytime soon.

As far as mom goes, I could not have gotten through these past 3 months without her!  And no, I don't mind, I will be happy to share, lol.

Stay strong and take care of you!!  
 

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I am so sorry to hear of Lexi's passing. You showed your true love by letting her go before things got worse. Its the hardest thing in the world, to know if we did the right thing. But I know in my heart you did everything possible. May Lexi run free at the Bridge now along with all our beloved babies who will be showing her how to use her wings. 
Thank you so much!  She was worth every second of the fight!  I just wish I could have done more.
 

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You did a FANTASTIC job of looking after Lexi, honey. And you gave her the final act of love and kindness by setting her free. I know the courage that took and I know how it hurts. I know that hurt all too well. I am so glad you had your mom with you. There is no stronger love than a mother's love. Now love on those other babies. They'll be confused and need you, too. My prayers for you of peace and acceptance...like you said, it's not a final good-bye.
 

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I'm so sorry you both lost Lexi  What a stunning little beauty she was.  I, too, lost my little 16 year old, 5 pound calico this year, and I know just how much they can wrap themselves around our hearts, and how much our hearts break when we have to let them go.  But that pain is worth every minute we had with them, and all of us would do it all over again, this I am certain.  

Run free at the bridge, darling
Lexi
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You did a FANTASTIC job of looking after Lexi, honey. And you gave her the final act of love and kindness by setting her free. I know the courage that took and I know how it hurts. I know that hurt all too well. I am so glad you had your mom with you. There is no stronger love than a mother's love. Now love on those other babies. They'll be confused and need you, too. My prayers for you of peace and acceptance...like you said, it's not a final good-bye.
Thank you so much... I just wish I could have done more.  Letting go is the hardest thing ever, I don't handle it very well, but I promised her if that's what needed to be done then I would do that for her.  The others are right here by my side and spoiled as ever...they will be looked after don't you worry.  Continued prayers for you and your girl as well !
 

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I'm so sorry you both lost Lexi  What a stunning little beauty she was.  I, too, lost my little 16 year old, 5 pound calico this year, and I know just how much they can wrap themselves around our hearts, and how much our hearts break when we have to let them go.  But that pain is worth every minute we had with them, and all of us would do it all over again, this I am certain.  

Run free at the bridge, darling
Lexi
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Thank you so much and I am so very sorry for your loss as well...and you got that right, wrap herself around my heart she did and yes, I would do it all over again just to have her back here with me...oh how I will miss having my arms wrapped around that tiny silky baby.
 

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She really is a cute little girl.  I was telling your mom, she's a cross between Simon and Chestnut.  Simon's round green eyes and shaped face and Chestnuts body color.  well more brown.  But a cross none the less.

So sweet .
 
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You always know what to say, my friend.  This is beautiful.  Thank you so much!
 

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I'm sending you sympathy all the way from London. We know how you feel here so so much. Its the hardest decision. The hardest of the hard but its done from a place of big love.

I'm glad you got to spend that last bit of special time together. 

She really looked like a special cat...
 
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