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We got a feral kitten, about 7 months, living on our front porch. We just built a house up on a hill, and there are no cats that claimed this territory yet. So this little guy (or maybe a gal, haven't looked yet) was passing by one day and I threw food to him from a window. He ate the food till he was full and stayed on the porch ever since, this was about two weeks ago.
He is an extremely skinny kitten, and was most likely raised in the wild. Because of that, his feline behavior is lacking, which makes me irritated. He claimed the front porch as his own, and whenever anyone exits from the front door, he hisses at them. He does not run away, he just sits there and hisses. Same thing when I come out with cat food for him, he hisses even at the little dish I carry the cat food in, even though he can smell that it's food. I don't see any signs that he's scared of me, although I'm sure he's weary, as he comfortably comes close to me, smells my feet, he learned to meow and talk to me (cats normally don't meow), but still hisses. I'm guessing he claimed the porch as his own and I'm intruding on his personal space. I believe this is a very unacceptable behavior, because we have guests over, and he's not been taught any manners. The reason I feed him is so that he could hunt and kill mice and snakes around the house (we're in central Texas hillcountry, away from any towns). I'm not a good hearted woman that will feed a wild animal just for kicks, there are tons of them around here, and I just don't have the funds to feed them all. He has to work for it, and he has to behave for it. If I could get another more friendly kitty and let this one go, I would in a heartbeat. I only don't wanna get one at a shelter because the cat has to live outside.
I have no idea how to stop his hissing. I've tried talking friendly to him, and he responds. When I go to his dish to put his food in, if he hisses, I stop and go back to the door and start approaching his dish again, with food. He hisses on reflex, and I think he kinda understands that I don't like his hissing, but he can't stop, it's almost automatic. So how do I make it clear to him that it's unacceptable, first, and second, how do I change his behavior? I got patience and time on my hands. And also I wanna let him know that I'm the boss, not him, it's my porch, and my food, I just allow him to live here and eat my food. Should I eat in front of him and share my food? Should I spend more time outside so he gets used to me? I've been out every day for a couple of hours to work on the new flower beds and garden beds.
Thanks.
He is an extremely skinny kitten, and was most likely raised in the wild. Because of that, his feline behavior is lacking, which makes me irritated. He claimed the front porch as his own, and whenever anyone exits from the front door, he hisses at them. He does not run away, he just sits there and hisses. Same thing when I come out with cat food for him, he hisses even at the little dish I carry the cat food in, even though he can smell that it's food. I don't see any signs that he's scared of me, although I'm sure he's weary, as he comfortably comes close to me, smells my feet, he learned to meow and talk to me (cats normally don't meow), but still hisses. I'm guessing he claimed the porch as his own and I'm intruding on his personal space. I believe this is a very unacceptable behavior, because we have guests over, and he's not been taught any manners. The reason I feed him is so that he could hunt and kill mice and snakes around the house (we're in central Texas hillcountry, away from any towns). I'm not a good hearted woman that will feed a wild animal just for kicks, there are tons of them around here, and I just don't have the funds to feed them all. He has to work for it, and he has to behave for it. If I could get another more friendly kitty and let this one go, I would in a heartbeat. I only don't wanna get one at a shelter because the cat has to live outside.
I have no idea how to stop his hissing. I've tried talking friendly to him, and he responds. When I go to his dish to put his food in, if he hisses, I stop and go back to the door and start approaching his dish again, with food. He hisses on reflex, and I think he kinda understands that I don't like his hissing, but he can't stop, it's almost automatic. So how do I make it clear to him that it's unacceptable, first, and second, how do I change his behavior? I got patience and time on my hands. And also I wanna let him know that I'm the boss, not him, it's my porch, and my food, I just allow him to live here and eat my food. Should I eat in front of him and share my food? Should I spend more time outside so he gets used to me? I've been out every day for a couple of hours to work on the new flower beds and garden beds.
Thanks.