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Hi everyone! I am new here and I just wanted to share this situation... I myself dont have a cat but my Fiance does. He just got it the other day.
Me and my Fiance been together now for almost 6 years. The first year of being together we got a dog as a new add up to the family. And we are very happy about it.
Right now me and my Fiance are not in the same roof yet in the states where he is in. I am moving soon.
To make the story short my Fiance got a cat and I didnt liked it. I am not a cat fan (sorry guys). Few years back I told him that I had a trauma about cats when I was a kid. while I was 7 years old i was scratched by the cat while I was swinging my legs while sitting down at the dinning table, i got startled and screamed and cried. I dont think the cat intended to hurt me back then but since then i started to be distance with them. its not that I hate the cats , i love animals but Just in my thoughts that something would happened bad like it happened when i was a kid.
We talked about this but still he got his self a cat and it surprised me. I am so depressed that he didnt consider the fact that I dont like it. He didnt even asked me and decided together but yet he just decided it for himself.
Now he's pointing at me and bitching about me having a dog while he cant have a cat? He told me is unfair. The reason why he's getting a cat is because he said he is depress and lonely.
I dont know what to do. Is there any way that this would work? I needed advice please....
Me and my Fiance been together now for almost 6 years. The first year of being together we got a dog as a new add up to the family. And we are very happy about it.
Right now me and my Fiance are not in the same roof yet in the states where he is in. I am moving soon.
To make the story short my Fiance got a cat and I didnt liked it. I am not a cat fan (sorry guys). Few years back I told him that I had a trauma about cats when I was a kid. while I was 7 years old i was scratched by the cat while I was swinging my legs while sitting down at the dinning table, i got startled and screamed and cried. I dont think the cat intended to hurt me back then but since then i started to be distance with them. its not that I hate the cats , i love animals but Just in my thoughts that something would happened bad like it happened when i was a kid.
We talked about this but still he got his self a cat and it surprised me. I am so depressed that he didnt consider the fact that I dont like it. He didnt even asked me and decided together but yet he just decided it for himself.
Now he's pointing at me and bitching about me having a dog while he cant have a cat? He told me is unfair. The reason why he's getting a cat is because he said he is depress and lonely.
I dont know what to do. Is there any way that this would work? I needed advice please....