Can't you suggest firmly that you've done your bit,now the carpets and painting are her and her husbands contribution to helping HER.mother.Rick is starting to think of selling it as a tear-down, too. I was surprised on Saturday when he told me that.
Our son came up on Saturday and took his things home.
A local recycling/second-hand organization is coming in on Wednesday to pick up the remaining items. Rick took our old computer (minus the hard drive), printer, a couple of old microwaves, vacuum cleaners, an old lawn mower, etc. up to the garage so the organization could take those items, too. We had to pay to get rid of some of the stuff, but it was worth it in the long run. At that point, the only remaining items in the house will be those things that Rick is taking. We just need to get up there and bring those things home.
His sister is still dickering with us about removing the carpet and painting. Rick and I are holding our ground, esp now that he's thinking tear-down. She is really angry with us and can't believe that we aren't willing to help his mother. We think we've done enough. As Rick told her again yesterday, had it not been for Rick and me, we wouldn't be even this far along. And enough is enough.