My 5 month old kitten, Dahlia, always claws me when she's trying to jump on my lap. I've noticed that my other cat, Halo, uses his hind legs to "leap" up onto things. Dahlia, however, reaches up, grabs with her claws and then drags herself up. She does this when jumping onto the bed, the couch, me, everything. My arms and legs + my furniture are getting very scratched up as a result. I'm a little afraid to discipline her when she does this, because I don't think I can communicate to her that it's the claws I'm disapproving of rather than the fact that she is jumping on my lap or the couch. Any suggestions?
A few other, related issues: After the first month or so of no sleep, I finally started kicking my kittens out of the bedroom at night. I was unable to sleep at night because they were so active and loved to wrestle on top of me while I tried to sleep. In the mornings they get very loving and affectionate, which unfortunately has some annoying side affects that keep me awake. As a result of all this they spend the night outside of the room, which theuy adjusted to fairly well. It's the mornings that are a problem now. They've decided that every morning at 7 AM it's time for me to get up - so they meow and scratch at the door; waking/keeping me up and scratching the wooden doors. The solution to one problem creates another. :-) I would love to just let them in, however:
Every time Dahlia cuddles, she needs to nurse in my hair. It's long and she's in love with it. Problem is it's annoying. When I'm trying to sleep it keeps me up and it any time she does it it hurts because she's kneading my neck and face with her claws while she does it. Will she grow out of this? Again, I feel bad scolding her when she's being so sweet and happy. I've read a couple fo threads where people essentially said to just deal with it - but it's too painful, so I need her to stop. She does it EVERY time we cuddle. So if I put her down when she does it, then we'll never get to be affectionate.
Halo, my other kitty, also does a couple of things that keep me awake in the morning and are generally irritating. When he's happy he loves to lick my face - eyes, lips, nostrils. And if you don't stop him he ends up nibbling - which is no fun when it's your eyes he's nibbling! I always blow in his face but that only stops him for a second. Other issue: I had him for about a month before we got Dahlia, so he was used to being the only-kitty. They get along well but he's a bit possesive of my attention, so any time Dahlia's being affectionate (read: sucking my hair, kneading my face), Halo comes over and sits right on my face! He never did this before. For some reason it's important to him to be the cat closest to my face. He does the same thing when she's sitting on my lap - has to climb up on top of her to get closest to my face (but that one isn't a problem like sitting on my face).
So, you can probably see why I can't sleep with them in the room in the morning. I would love to be able to but just can't unless their behavior changes. Any suggestions on what to do? How do I discipline them when they're being loving? How are they going to understand what it is I can't tolerate? Do I just wait and hope that they grow out of it?
Any help would be appreciated.
A few other, related issues: After the first month or so of no sleep, I finally started kicking my kittens out of the bedroom at night. I was unable to sleep at night because they were so active and loved to wrestle on top of me while I tried to sleep. In the mornings they get very loving and affectionate, which unfortunately has some annoying side affects that keep me awake. As a result of all this they spend the night outside of the room, which theuy adjusted to fairly well. It's the mornings that are a problem now. They've decided that every morning at 7 AM it's time for me to get up - so they meow and scratch at the door; waking/keeping me up and scratching the wooden doors. The solution to one problem creates another. :-) I would love to just let them in, however:
Every time Dahlia cuddles, she needs to nurse in my hair. It's long and she's in love with it. Problem is it's annoying. When I'm trying to sleep it keeps me up and it any time she does it it hurts because she's kneading my neck and face with her claws while she does it. Will she grow out of this? Again, I feel bad scolding her when she's being so sweet and happy. I've read a couple fo threads where people essentially said to just deal with it - but it's too painful, so I need her to stop. She does it EVERY time we cuddle. So if I put her down when she does it, then we'll never get to be affectionate.
Halo, my other kitty, also does a couple of things that keep me awake in the morning and are generally irritating. When he's happy he loves to lick my face - eyes, lips, nostrils. And if you don't stop him he ends up nibbling - which is no fun when it's your eyes he's nibbling! I always blow in his face but that only stops him for a second. Other issue: I had him for about a month before we got Dahlia, so he was used to being the only-kitty. They get along well but he's a bit possesive of my attention, so any time Dahlia's being affectionate (read: sucking my hair, kneading my face), Halo comes over and sits right on my face! He never did this before. For some reason it's important to him to be the cat closest to my face. He does the same thing when she's sitting on my lap - has to climb up on top of her to get closest to my face (but that one isn't a problem like sitting on my face).
So, you can probably see why I can't sleep with them in the room in the morning. I would love to be able to but just can't unless their behavior changes. Any suggestions on what to do? How do I discipline them when they're being loving? How are they going to understand what it is I can't tolerate? Do I just wait and hope that they grow out of it?
Any help would be appreciated.