I have gotten very good advice in the past and am hoping someone can help me now. I have socialized feral kittens before; this is my 8th. I know socialization is one step forward, two back but we haven't taken any forward steps in over a month. I got her when she was 6 months old, newly trapped and vetted. She had been with her mom and a new set of kittens when she was trapped. Mom I believe was TNR and the kittens were socialized (not by me) and adopted out.
I kept her caged for 2 weeks. At first she was climbing the sides, but better if I kept the cage covered. Another foster a month older was in the same room but free to roam (He had socialized pretty quickly). After 2 weeks, she would eat in front of me, after some hissing I could touch her, and the two kittens were interacting through the cage (toys exchanged) at night. The philosophy of our rescue is not to keep the cats caged any longer than necessary, so I let her free into the room.
Two months later, I have a bonded pair now 8 and 9 months old. The male has been ready for adoption for awhile. The female is not. She runs to her bed as soon as I come in the room. Most times she will hiss at me when I reach to start to pet her but 2 seconds later is moving her head so I can rub her chin just the way she likes it. Then she stretches out and falls asleep. If I stop petting she'll open her eyes to see why I stopped. Her bed is up on a cabinet so when I sit to pet her, we are eye level . She doesn't hiss when I reach in to give her treats after a petting, or if I stop and start petting again.
Picking her up is completely out of the question. I can scruff her., but only do when I have to (vet visit)
She readily plays with her "brother" but won't play with me and just watches when I play with him. Once or twice she has tried to join in, but he is a "ball hog" and she stops.
Ideas anyone?
I kept her caged for 2 weeks. At first she was climbing the sides, but better if I kept the cage covered. Another foster a month older was in the same room but free to roam (He had socialized pretty quickly). After 2 weeks, she would eat in front of me, after some hissing I could touch her, and the two kittens were interacting through the cage (toys exchanged) at night. The philosophy of our rescue is not to keep the cats caged any longer than necessary, so I let her free into the room.
Two months later, I have a bonded pair now 8 and 9 months old. The male has been ready for adoption for awhile. The female is not. She runs to her bed as soon as I come in the room. Most times she will hiss at me when I reach to start to pet her but 2 seconds later is moving her head so I can rub her chin just the way she likes it. Then she stretches out and falls asleep. If I stop petting she'll open her eyes to see why I stopped. Her bed is up on a cabinet so when I sit to pet her, we are eye level . She doesn't hiss when I reach in to give her treats after a petting, or if I stop and start petting again.
Picking her up is completely out of the question. I can scruff her., but only do when I have to (vet visit)
She readily plays with her "brother" but won't play with me and just watches when I play with him. Once or twice she has tried to join in, but he is a "ball hog" and she stops.
Ideas anyone?