I'm not really familiar with the aging process on cats and was wondering if any of you could give me some ease of mind about Wurp, my 12 year old. My other two big indoor babies (not our barn cats) passed early in life, one to kidney disease and one passed in our house fire in 1994, so any and all changes in Wurp scare me to death. Hubby has a 19 year old girl that he got in 97, but I really didn't know her in her prime so I don't have a comparison with her.
As you know from my other posts I have a 2 year old formerly feral that we are integrating into our household, on week six of site swapping with Wurp, who is a bit cantankerous and not accepting at all. I am at the point I would like to try to let them see--but not touch--each other again and see where we are. I am just worried that Wurp is sick or possibly at the beginning of a bad malady and I don't want to upset or stress him.
Wurp's normal routine has always been to get up with us in the morning about 5am, eat, make his rounds and look out all the windows, do all his important cat business, then sleep the remainder of the day somewhere in the house--bed, chair, couch, with the occasional break in the napping to eat more, drink, visit his litter box, then back to sleep somewhere. He would then sit up and visit with us until bedtime, in the kitchen with me while I cooked dinner, then the living room with us for tv time, and he would go to bed and sleep on hubby's feet until morning (with his middle of the night forays for food, water, box, look out window).
Since Shortstack has been inside I know it has both stressed and intrigued Wurp, at first he slept quite a bit less, spent a lot of time staring at and popping the bedroom door where Stack is. The past two weeks he seems to be sleeping much more. He gets up with us in the morning, eats, and then disappears to our bedroom where he goes back to sleep on the bed. I move his food in there, he has a litter box, etc. and we close the door and let Stack out to roam the house for the day. We come home, socialize with Stack, and swap about 6pm. Wurp will come out and I feed him, he eats, then maybe go see hubby for a few minutes, and go back to bed. He will get back up about 9:30 and come see us--mainly to tell me it's bedtime--I feed him again and he goes back to bed with us. He never spends the evening with us anymore, he just goes either to Stack's door and stares at it, or he goes to bed. He also seems much skinnier to me...but I weighed him last night and he is the same as at his last vet visit back in September. He just feels skinnier, lighter, less flabby, less muscle mass. I know they lose muscle mass as they age. But then again, I am so used to Stack who borders on being morbidly obese--he is a chunk. And Wurp scaled two baby gates stacked six feet high like a military trainee to get to Stack just a month ago.
He is back on Zyrtec 5mg/day for his seasonal allergies. This makes him eat more, but do any of you think it might make him sleep more? I personally can't take the 10mg tablets because they absolutely knock me out, but they don't do that to my hubby. I'm just medication sensitive. Hubby and I have talked and talked about this. We wondered if the stress of having another cat in the house (that he doesn't like) could make him be this way, or maybe lose weight. Or--could it be something horrible? Cancer? Lymphoma? I made an appointment today for him at the vet, but it's next Tuesday, since they didn't consider this an "urgent" visit to be worked in. I'll go crazy until then, or cry myself silly if I think about it too much.
Can somebody give me an objective view before I worry myself silly? TIA.
As you know from my other posts I have a 2 year old formerly feral that we are integrating into our household, on week six of site swapping with Wurp, who is a bit cantankerous and not accepting at all. I am at the point I would like to try to let them see--but not touch--each other again and see where we are. I am just worried that Wurp is sick or possibly at the beginning of a bad malady and I don't want to upset or stress him.
Wurp's normal routine has always been to get up with us in the morning about 5am, eat, make his rounds and look out all the windows, do all his important cat business, then sleep the remainder of the day somewhere in the house--bed, chair, couch, with the occasional break in the napping to eat more, drink, visit his litter box, then back to sleep somewhere. He would then sit up and visit with us until bedtime, in the kitchen with me while I cooked dinner, then the living room with us for tv time, and he would go to bed and sleep on hubby's feet until morning (with his middle of the night forays for food, water, box, look out window).
Since Shortstack has been inside I know it has both stressed and intrigued Wurp, at first he slept quite a bit less, spent a lot of time staring at and popping the bedroom door where Stack is. The past two weeks he seems to be sleeping much more. He gets up with us in the morning, eats, and then disappears to our bedroom where he goes back to sleep on the bed. I move his food in there, he has a litter box, etc. and we close the door and let Stack out to roam the house for the day. We come home, socialize with Stack, and swap about 6pm. Wurp will come out and I feed him, he eats, then maybe go see hubby for a few minutes, and go back to bed. He will get back up about 9:30 and come see us--mainly to tell me it's bedtime--I feed him again and he goes back to bed with us. He never spends the evening with us anymore, he just goes either to Stack's door and stares at it, or he goes to bed. He also seems much skinnier to me...but I weighed him last night and he is the same as at his last vet visit back in September. He just feels skinnier, lighter, less flabby, less muscle mass. I know they lose muscle mass as they age. But then again, I am so used to Stack who borders on being morbidly obese--he is a chunk. And Wurp scaled two baby gates stacked six feet high like a military trainee to get to Stack just a month ago.
He is back on Zyrtec 5mg/day for his seasonal allergies. This makes him eat more, but do any of you think it might make him sleep more? I personally can't take the 10mg tablets because they absolutely knock me out, but they don't do that to my hubby. I'm just medication sensitive. Hubby and I have talked and talked about this. We wondered if the stress of having another cat in the house (that he doesn't like) could make him be this way, or maybe lose weight. Or--could it be something horrible? Cancer? Lymphoma? I made an appointment today for him at the vet, but it's next Tuesday, since they didn't consider this an "urgent" visit to be worked in. I'll go crazy until then, or cry myself silly if I think about it too much.
Can somebody give me an objective view before I worry myself silly? TIA.