I got this cat a little while ago from a rescue, and he's super cute and nice. He greets me at the door and meows - he seems really interested in when I go to the bathroom & comes running to watch that (and he'll actually go up on my knee a little...on the toilet of all places..). He's very fluffy - and I always want to hold him or have him sit in my lap... but he HATES being held. He'll rub up against my leg or occasionally (rarely) sit by my side. He will squirm like crazy if held for more than 2 seconds. The claws will even come out.
Do you think this is his personality for good? He's 6-7 months old.
He went through a lot of bad stuff - he was born in a litter of 6 as the runt. His foster mom bottle-fed him for months. Then, he needed eye drops constantly. So, every time he got picked up - he got chemicals put in his eye. (I had to give him drops too and he went CRAZY) - so I think this is part of why he hates being picked up. I can only give him lysine now, which is probably sufficient, but the drops did seem to help more. I tried to serve him food on the table and next to me so I could show him being picked up and being near me is ok. He did eat the food, and he hated being picked up just to eat - but he quickly got over it.
How could you not want to grab him and snuggle him???? My old cat was also siamese - and he was a big snuggly love bug teddy bear. I guess that's also why I'm kind of sad about when he squirms and runs away from me...
Do you think this is his personality for good? He's 6-7 months old.
He went through a lot of bad stuff - he was born in a litter of 6 as the runt. His foster mom bottle-fed him for months. Then, he needed eye drops constantly. So, every time he got picked up - he got chemicals put in his eye. (I had to give him drops too and he went CRAZY) - so I think this is part of why he hates being picked up. I can only give him lysine now, which is probably sufficient, but the drops did seem to help more. I tried to serve him food on the table and next to me so I could show him being picked up and being near me is ok. He did eat the food, and he hated being picked up just to eat - but he quickly got over it.
How could you not want to grab him and snuggle him???? My old cat was also siamese - and he was a big snuggly love bug teddy bear. I guess that's also why I'm kind of sad about when he squirms and runs away from me...