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I am sat here typing this as blood is dripping from my lips and it burns.
Ok so as you can tell I have an 8 month old kitten, boy and neutered. Never been abused, came from a loving home, we treated him with care, always played with him but recently his behavior is becoming out of control I was the only one left to tolerate his stupidness now I'm losing it. Beginning of November he used to **** in the sink, it was annoying, disgusting and we had no idea why. We kept his litter box clean, and because of this issue we had to always close the bathroom door and check he wasn't playing around. Can you imagine if a guest had come round and accidentally left the door open? Now I know all cats do this but his habit of walking on kitchen surfaces is disgusting. He does it especially after he's used the toilet and ugh I can't even. I understand he wants to climb things which is the reason we buy him so many poles to climb on. He's destroyed half our chairs, has a habit of lashing out and biting at us even when we do nothing wrong, he once stole my mums breakfast in the morning when she was in a hurry to leave and she was very upset and I can see why. He has accumulated very bad manners and we don't know how. We never really fed him off the table but if you tell him no constantly and even with force he will not listen. Today and yesterday (he comes onto my bed often to sleep which I don't mind) he came to lie down infront of me whilst I was lying down on the bed. I pet him to sleep he enjoyed it and purred. 2 minutes later he lashed for my arm and has this habit of just switching from good to evil in seconds. I have tons of bites on my legs and scratches on my arm and today he did exactly the same thing and I can not move my arm or else he will attack it. I tried moving it out of his view but he leaped and got me and also slashed my lip with his claw. That for me is literally the last time he is coming into my room. I've had enough and I really don't want to give him away but the way things are going now it's looking like that which is a shame, we have had him since he was 10 weeks old. Won't even have been a year. Yes, I knew what I was getting into when I chose to get a cat, it wouldn't be easy but this is far from a joke now. We constantly have younger cousins coming round and I'm worried he will lash out for them but he hasn't so far yet. Can anyone suggest anything like training classes or professional help? Re-homing him would be a last resort.
Thanks in advance.
Ok so as you can tell I have an 8 month old kitten, boy and neutered. Never been abused, came from a loving home, we treated him with care, always played with him but recently his behavior is becoming out of control I was the only one left to tolerate his stupidness now I'm losing it. Beginning of November he used to **** in the sink, it was annoying, disgusting and we had no idea why. We kept his litter box clean, and because of this issue we had to always close the bathroom door and check he wasn't playing around. Can you imagine if a guest had come round and accidentally left the door open? Now I know all cats do this but his habit of walking on kitchen surfaces is disgusting. He does it especially after he's used the toilet and ugh I can't even. I understand he wants to climb things which is the reason we buy him so many poles to climb on. He's destroyed half our chairs, has a habit of lashing out and biting at us even when we do nothing wrong, he once stole my mums breakfast in the morning when she was in a hurry to leave and she was very upset and I can see why. He has accumulated very bad manners and we don't know how. We never really fed him off the table but if you tell him no constantly and even with force he will not listen. Today and yesterday (he comes onto my bed often to sleep which I don't mind) he came to lie down infront of me whilst I was lying down on the bed. I pet him to sleep he enjoyed it and purred. 2 minutes later he lashed for my arm and has this habit of just switching from good to evil in seconds. I have tons of bites on my legs and scratches on my arm and today he did exactly the same thing and I can not move my arm or else he will attack it. I tried moving it out of his view but he leaped and got me and also slashed my lip with his claw. That for me is literally the last time he is coming into my room. I've had enough and I really don't want to give him away but the way things are going now it's looking like that which is a shame, we have had him since he was 10 weeks old. Won't even have been a year. Yes, I knew what I was getting into when I chose to get a cat, it wouldn't be easy but this is far from a joke now. We constantly have younger cousins coming round and I'm worried he will lash out for them but he hasn't so far yet. Can anyone suggest anything like training classes or professional help? Re-homing him would be a last resort.
Thanks in advance.
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