One of my cats yells at me when I punish him by spraying him with a water gun when he's bad. I mean he yells like a person. He looks straight at me and yells. He's not making a hissing or any normal kind of noise an angry cat makes. It almost makes me cry. He's a Maine Coon and he's known to evoke emotion with his own diverse and rich level of communication. I mean, I can't really make out the difference between he and another person I have a relationship with other than he has limited vocabulary and cannot speak English but when he communicates to me I hear him perfectly clear.
Anyway, there is no particular point to this. But I'll try to add relevant details. He's extremely jealous of my newest youngest cat LG who's young, athletic, cute, garners a lot of my attention. And he's just a real sweet heart LG.
He's my pride & joy. He used to try to play with Cody til he realized after getting old enough, he's now about 2, that Cody simply doesn't like him. So now he just looks at him like 'what's his problem? Oh well' OCCASIONALLY he'll jump on him maybe just to get a rise out of him but really he's only ever expressed an interest in being friends with him. Of course I realize there may be a more complex interaction going on between them where LG is more culpable than meets the eye, though I doubt it's much more than jealously. Cody has zero problems with Sheba("Fat boy")
and will eat and sleep with him for instance.
Everybody eats and sleeps with Sheba.
He's just so fat
and loveable and generous. He'll even groom you if you let him.
So anyway, whenever Cody hisses at LG I get really angry(I've got my own issues too) and I chase and drench him with a water gun. I don't necessarily agree with the method but I have hopes he'll relate it to his attitude towards LG and curb his temptation to hiss. And I just haven't figured out an alternative. It's not like I can sit him down and talk about it. So I cuddle him, which is what he lives for, within an hour later, after I've cooled down and then actually do have a talk with him encouraging him to be nice. The main problem, other than just breaking up the harmony, is Cody can rarely eat unless I prepare food specifically for him and he's skinny enough at his age as it is.
I know I'm the monster here. So consider this a confession. But at the same time, I just wanted to share my amazing cat/old child Cody. I feel like his purpose could be, in an absence of purposeful relationships due to my anti-social nature and overall distaste for most people, he serves to provide me someone to relate to and to see myself through his eyes and learn and grow from him. And I'll say that for pets in general. It's just unfortunate they only stay for so long and Cody is like 12. I keep telling him he's going to 20. I just keep crossing my fingers.
Anyway, there is no particular point to this. But I'll try to add relevant details. He's extremely jealous of my newest youngest cat LG who's young, athletic, cute, garners a lot of my attention. And he's just a real sweet heart LG.
He's my pride & joy. He used to try to play with Cody til he realized after getting old enough, he's now about 2, that Cody simply doesn't like him. So now he just looks at him like 'what's his problem? Oh well' OCCASIONALLY he'll jump on him maybe just to get a rise out of him but really he's only ever expressed an interest in being friends with him. Of course I realize there may be a more complex interaction going on between them where LG is more culpable than meets the eye, though I doubt it's much more than jealously. Cody has zero problems with Sheba("Fat boy")
and will eat and sleep with him for instance.
Everybody eats and sleeps with Sheba.
He's just so fat
and loveable and generous. He'll even groom you if you let him.
So anyway, whenever Cody hisses at LG I get really angry(I've got my own issues too) and I chase and drench him with a water gun. I don't necessarily agree with the method but I have hopes he'll relate it to his attitude towards LG and curb his temptation to hiss. And I just haven't figured out an alternative. It's not like I can sit him down and talk about it. So I cuddle him, which is what he lives for, within an hour later, after I've cooled down and then actually do have a talk with him encouraging him to be nice. The main problem, other than just breaking up the harmony, is Cody can rarely eat unless I prepare food specifically for him and he's skinny enough at his age as it is.
I know I'm the monster here. So consider this a confession. But at the same time, I just wanted to share my amazing cat/old child Cody. I feel like his purpose could be, in an absence of purposeful relationships due to my anti-social nature and overall distaste for most people, he serves to provide me someone to relate to and to see myself through his eyes and learn and grow from him. And I'll say that for pets in general. It's just unfortunate they only stay for so long and Cody is like 12. I keep telling him he's going to 20. I just keep crossing my fingers.