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I have inherited a 7 year old cat with major fear and aggression issues. She was attached to her owner, a dear friend, who recently passed away, and literally no one else. Family could not take her because she attacks and draws blood. She came with her sister, who is a very affectionate 2 year old. Took several weeks for Willow to accept the kitten.
I promised my friend I would take Willow, because I know she would have been immediately euthanized at a shelter.
They arrived yesterday after a 10 hour drive.
They're in a room by themselves, in a house full of rowdy, noisy, behaviorally challenged cats. No interaction is planned with Willow and my Tribe until probably after Hell freezes over, although Foosey will probably jump right in and take over.
I've worked with fearful cats before, even one or two who had come from abusive situations, but never one who was raised in a calm, two-cat home with lots of love. Sharon had had her from approximately 6 weeks old. She had another cat until that cat passed away a couple of years ago.
With Sharon, Willow attacked nearly every aide and home maker, and drew blood with family members.
I'm bringing this to y'all because I want to start off on the right foot. Getting close enough to give her meds, even transdermal on her ears, is a rapid trip to the ER for me, so sedating her for a vet exam is out of the question at this stage.
She came with her toys, Sharon's blanket, and the food they're used to eating. Foosey has her scratching post and hammock.
They're still grieving, I know. Hell, I am, too.
Other than keeping them to themselves, going in there and speaking gently, and playing with Foosey, and doing my schoolwork as it's my office, napping on the daybed in there, just being close without forcing myself, is there anything else I can/should be doing? I do have a Feliway diffuser, brand new litter box, and food/water bowls that just came out of the dishwasher. So I'm trying to minimize my cats' scents.
I promised my friend I would take Willow, because I know she would have been immediately euthanized at a shelter.
They arrived yesterday after a 10 hour drive.
They're in a room by themselves, in a house full of rowdy, noisy, behaviorally challenged cats. No interaction is planned with Willow and my Tribe until probably after Hell freezes over, although Foosey will probably jump right in and take over.
I've worked with fearful cats before, even one or two who had come from abusive situations, but never one who was raised in a calm, two-cat home with lots of love. Sharon had had her from approximately 6 weeks old. She had another cat until that cat passed away a couple of years ago.
With Sharon, Willow attacked nearly every aide and home maker, and drew blood with family members.
I'm bringing this to y'all because I want to start off on the right foot. Getting close enough to give her meds, even transdermal on her ears, is a rapid trip to the ER for me, so sedating her for a vet exam is out of the question at this stage.
She came with her toys, Sharon's blanket, and the food they're used to eating. Foosey has her scratching post and hammock.
They're still grieving, I know. Hell, I am, too.
Other than keeping them to themselves, going in there and speaking gently, and playing with Foosey, and doing my schoolwork as it's my office, napping on the daybed in there, just being close without forcing myself, is there anything else I can/should be doing? I do have a Feliway diffuser, brand new litter box, and food/water bowls that just came out of the dishwasher. So I'm trying to minimize my cats' scents.
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