I have never owned a cat before. I found two black male ferals, took them in, and put them up for adoption. The one feral has come around and is very social and friendly. The other feral is sweet, but has taken a long time to get adjusted...and he is still extremely shy. I am heartbroken because a perfect potential adopter called me, told me they were going to set up a meet and greet, and never called back to set up a definite time. I see on FB that they went and adopted other cats. I know they probably think my bond with the cats was strong and maybe that scared them away, b/c she did say something to that effect. I did ask a lot of questions because I wanted to make sure they were the right home and were prepared to take in a former feral who is still very shy. I was hesitant because she had a husband and an 8-year-old daughter. These cats are used to living with just me. So, they never called and I still have them and they possibly missed out on a wonderful home. I am embarrassed to say I literally cried when I read their FB post about adopted other cats.
I am going to have to go out of town soon. I will hire someone to feed and clean the litterboxes once a day (which is all I can afford at $15 a visit). But a lot of cat people told me the cats may urinate or poop in inappropriate places when I am gone. I had no idea cats did this. I don't know what to do, b/c I have to go out of town. I thought about boarding them, but someone told me that is even more stressful for the cats I don't know what to do. I am so depressed about this. I am getting ready to take a new job, have to get out of town for a week, and have had potential adopters bail on me. It is getting to be too much for me.
I am going to have to go out of town soon. I will hire someone to feed and clean the litterboxes once a day (which is all I can afford at $15 a visit). But a lot of cat people told me the cats may urinate or poop in inappropriate places when I am gone. I had no idea cats did this. I don't know what to do, b/c I have to go out of town. I thought about boarding them, but someone told me that is even more stressful for the cats I don't know what to do. I am so depressed about this. I am getting ready to take a new job, have to get out of town for a week, and have had potential adopters bail on me. It is getting to be too much for me.