Fella and Little Girl crossing the bridge

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I am so sad my Fella I had to put down on Jan 2 and on Jan 4th my Little Girl died in my house. In my husband arms. I am so sad, it's very hard to deal with this pain.
Fella was 17 1/2 years old he stopped eating, he had liver disease. We put him down and stayed with him. He cried with us as we were saying good bye to him. We loved him so much. I'm glad my husband and I stayed with him until the end.
But my little girl was a total shock. She died on Jan 4th, two days after Fella. She was breathing heavy on Jan 1st we rushed her to the ER they took x-rays and ultrasound. She had cancer all over her organs and heart. It was a very aggressive lymphoma. We where in shock couldn't believe it. We took her home because I wanted to take her to my vet to put her down on Monday but she died Monday morning.
Fella was my husband's cat loved him so much. Always talking, and Little Girl was my baby always sleeping with me. She was my love, I still cry to this day, she was so special to me, I never felt this pain in my heart over a pet for this long.
What I find amazing is the numbers of their death are our birthday numbers. I wonder if it means anything. Maybe they are thinking of us and we will always think of them. They were such special cats it's so heartbreaking. .
 
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I also forgot to add my Little Girl was only 8 years old, so young. I wish I had her as long as Fella. Miss my little baby. .
 

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I am so sorry about your loss. It hurts as much as losing a close friend or relative. They were both to you - friends and members of the family.
 

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To lose two beloved pets so close together is heartbreaking.  I'm so very sorry.  Rest in peace, Fella and Little Girl.  
 

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To experience a double tragedy like this is truly heartbreaking, my heart cries for your pain. I'm sure the numbers matching your birthday numbers mean the world to you, it obviously did to both of them. That they could not live without each other is apparent with the closeness of their passing, I pray a swift and peaceful journey to the Rainbow Bridge.  I know the pain seems unending right now, the only thing you can do is to concentrate on the good memories and try to celebrate the fact that they both brought so much into your lives. You did all you could, being with them at the end meant so much to those precious ones, they knew they were loved and that is all they ever wanted from life.The bond you formed with them will never be taken from you, you will carry it always in your heart.

 The loss to our homes and hearts brings an emptiness that only time can help to soften, in time you will realize that even though losing them brought so much pain and anguish, not knowing them at all would have been so much worse. I'll keep you all in my thoughts and prayers, know that we care so much on this site that you are hurting and need some comfort, be gentle on yourself....... RIP beautiful Fella and Little Girl, you will never be forgotten and will be forever held in loving hearts! 
 

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This is so sad.  I am terribly sorry for what you are going through.  Losing two at once is unbelievable painful and to have one of them be so unexpected must make it even worse. With time, the pain will be less raw and sharp, but they will always be with you, living on in your memories and heart.

 RIP dear Little Girl and Fella.  
 
 
 
 
 
 

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Deeply sorry for such a devastating situation. Losing one is bad enough but two in such a short time is very difficult. Condolences to you and your family.:rbheart:
 
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I want thank you all for the kind words. This helps us so much for this hard time in our lives. You are all beautiful people and hugs to all of you. This site is amazing and it's so nice to have all of you to understand our loss..
 

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I am so sorry for your double loss. They touch our lives so deeply and when they depart this life it is so hard to let them go. I will pray for your healing and that they will send you a sign that it is time to give love again.[emoji]128062[/emoji]
 

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My condolences. It's so difficult to lose one fur baby, but losing two in just a couple of days is too cruel. RIP, babies. :rbheart:
 
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So sorry for your loss :( we had to put our old boy of 18 years to peace on 3/2/16. We accidentally hit him in our driveway 3 weeks ago. My husband didn't see him. We are very heartbroken thinking we had him all that time and loved him so much but caused him so much pain in the end. I know we shouldn't think like this. It was an accident and he was an old boy. Just think of your beautiful memories with your babies. I'm sure you guys were great parents/companions. Sending you blessings [emoji]128156[/emoji]
 
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Thank you Oslem64, I am so sorry for your loss. We have to be thankful we had them so long. God bless you xo
 

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Yes hon that is so true. We also take care of them better than some people take care of their kids. Very grateful to have the unconditional love fur companions give us. Thank you xx
 
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I want to thank all of you again. You are all beautiful people and thank you xoxo
 
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My beautiful Fella and Little Girl rest in peace my babies, love you forever. .
 
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