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Hi everybody! I need the perspective of some cat lovers.
Me and my husband decided to buy a Siamese kitten from a registered breeder with good reviews. We chose this breed because because they seem so affectionate and intelligent. We spend a lot of time at home, I even work at home most of the time, so we would keep each other company.
We put down a deposit on the kitty and while we were waiting for it to be old enough, we spent our time preparing. We bought the same brand of cat food as the breeder recommended, tons of toys, put carpeted shelves on the wall, a bird feeder outside of the window, planted grass in pots, ... Every day we looked at pictures of the kitten, counting the days before we were allowed to take her home with us.
We were supposed to pick her up today. But two days ago I had a phone call with the breeder. I honestly told her that when the cat grows up and gets used to the new surroundings, I'd like to keep her out of our bedroom. But the breeder broke down, telling me it's cruel, making me sound like a monster. Then she sent me an email telling me that in my emails and phone calls I seem "cold" and "reserved", that she has a bad feeling about me, that she does not believe we'd give the kitten a loving home and that she'll send the deposit back.
Now I feel like crying. I keep re-reading my emails trying to figure out what I did wrong... Is it really cruel to keep an adult cat out of the bedroom? And why do I seem cold?
I keep telling myself that the breeder was way off. But I'm not sure anymore...
Me and my husband decided to buy a Siamese kitten from a registered breeder with good reviews. We chose this breed because because they seem so affectionate and intelligent. We spend a lot of time at home, I even work at home most of the time, so we would keep each other company.
We put down a deposit on the kitty and while we were waiting for it to be old enough, we spent our time preparing. We bought the same brand of cat food as the breeder recommended, tons of toys, put carpeted shelves on the wall, a bird feeder outside of the window, planted grass in pots, ... Every day we looked at pictures of the kitten, counting the days before we were allowed to take her home with us.
We were supposed to pick her up today. But two days ago I had a phone call with the breeder. I honestly told her that when the cat grows up and gets used to the new surroundings, I'd like to keep her out of our bedroom. But the breeder broke down, telling me it's cruel, making me sound like a monster. Then she sent me an email telling me that in my emails and phone calls I seem "cold" and "reserved", that she has a bad feeling about me, that she does not believe we'd give the kitten a loving home and that she'll send the deposit back.
Now I feel like crying. I keep re-reading my emails trying to figure out what I did wrong... Is it really cruel to keep an adult cat out of the bedroom? And why do I seem cold?
I keep telling myself that the breeder was way off. But I'm not sure anymore...