Hello, and thank you in advance to all who take time to read and possibly offer thoughts about my situation. I joined today specifically to post this sad question and hear from others who I know love their cats as much as I love mine, and possibly have faced something similar.
My kitty is 13 years old and was diagnosed with lymphoma in November. At that time she was having respiratory difficulty, had lost weight and clearly felt unwell. At the time of diagnosis she had a thoracentesis and that fluid removal provided good relief. We opted not to do further treatment, to bring her home and love her and give her the best days possible for the time she had left.
We expected only a couple of good weeks, and to my amazement she has made it all this time in good spirits and appearing to feel reasonably well. We're so grateful for each good moment.
But she is declining again and I am faced with making the dreaded decision about quality of life and giving her a peaceful ending. The last few days her respiratory effort is increased. She can only lie on her belly, often making herself fairly "flat." She occasionally (only a couple of times a day) appears to be taking a few rapid breaths with an open mouth. Also, alarmingly, I have not seen evidence that she has used her litter box in about 2 days.
All of that said, she continues to be up and around. She has certainly lost weight, but she still eats small amounts of food. She doesn't want to be touched but she likes to be near where "her people" are (though she alternates being "out" with time in a closet). I know she is uncomfortable...but she is not (yet) in acute distress.
I've only had to make a decision about euthanasia for a cat before when it was an emergency, clearly no other alternatives. I am finding it very difficult to think clearly about making a decision for my sweet girl. I don't want to wait until she is in the throes of true respiratory distress. I know that her observable symptoms may not show the true picture of how bad she feels right now. And I do feel that in the last couple of days I haven't seen signs of real "pleasure."
If I re-read all of this, my gut says it is time. And of course I know I am the only one who can make this decision. I plan to speak the to the vet in the morning. But if anyone has thoughts to share, I would appreciate hearing them. Thanks again.
My kitty is 13 years old and was diagnosed with lymphoma in November. At that time she was having respiratory difficulty, had lost weight and clearly felt unwell. At the time of diagnosis she had a thoracentesis and that fluid removal provided good relief. We opted not to do further treatment, to bring her home and love her and give her the best days possible for the time she had left.
We expected only a couple of good weeks, and to my amazement she has made it all this time in good spirits and appearing to feel reasonably well. We're so grateful for each good moment.
But she is declining again and I am faced with making the dreaded decision about quality of life and giving her a peaceful ending. The last few days her respiratory effort is increased. She can only lie on her belly, often making herself fairly "flat." She occasionally (only a couple of times a day) appears to be taking a few rapid breaths with an open mouth. Also, alarmingly, I have not seen evidence that she has used her litter box in about 2 days.
All of that said, she continues to be up and around. She has certainly lost weight, but she still eats small amounts of food. She doesn't want to be touched but she likes to be near where "her people" are (though she alternates being "out" with time in a closet). I know she is uncomfortable...but she is not (yet) in acute distress.
I've only had to make a decision about euthanasia for a cat before when it was an emergency, clearly no other alternatives. I am finding it very difficult to think clearly about making a decision for my sweet girl. I don't want to wait until she is in the throes of true respiratory distress. I know that her observable symptoms may not show the true picture of how bad she feels right now. And I do feel that in the last couple of days I haven't seen signs of real "pleasure."
If I re-read all of this, my gut says it is time. And of course I know I am the only one who can make this decision. I plan to speak the to the vet in the morning. But if anyone has thoughts to share, I would appreciate hearing them. Thanks again.