Howdy,
Ok. I have 2 wonderful cats that are like family to me. One was born in my home and she's getting pretty old. The other was a scrubby grey male kitten found outside my porch several years who grew up to be the most beautiful (and big) Russian Blue. Neither are declawed. I love my cats. I love animals.
On Thanksgiving Day, I heard the most miserable sound coming from my basement. It turned out to be a semi-longhair black female who was days away from starvation. She's declawed/spayed, roughly 6, but was in pretty rough shape. I took her to the vet, and was cleared of leukemia with only a respiratory infection to deal with.
I've tried to foster a good environment. I was worried that my big boy would hurt her badly, but the other two were rather scared of her at first. I gave/give them space and there hasn't been any outright fights. Just the disdain. But the new one just won't shake the street off. She's very easily agitated and spends a lot of time making my other two uncomfortable at the least. As of today, I've had to lock her out of the bedroom where she's been staying because she's started using the bed as a litter box. She didn't show this issue the first 8 weeks or so. At least I can't find it anyway. She is occasionally sweet and friendly to me, but that can change in a moment. I don't know what to do to make this situation better and am getting quite frustrated as I thought time would ease her personality and maybe we'd get a breakthrough.
Life was so nice with me and my other 2 before and I'm starting to wish this new one not here. No one's going to take her and I couldn't ask someone to anyway.
Taking in rescues sure isn't like what those shows depict. Any advice on turning this situation around and getting her to be more friendly? Or something that will make this experience better?
Ok. I have 2 wonderful cats that are like family to me. One was born in my home and she's getting pretty old. The other was a scrubby grey male kitten found outside my porch several years who grew up to be the most beautiful (and big) Russian Blue. Neither are declawed. I love my cats. I love animals.
On Thanksgiving Day, I heard the most miserable sound coming from my basement. It turned out to be a semi-longhair black female who was days away from starvation. She's declawed/spayed, roughly 6, but was in pretty rough shape. I took her to the vet, and was cleared of leukemia with only a respiratory infection to deal with.
I've tried to foster a good environment. I was worried that my big boy would hurt her badly, but the other two were rather scared of her at first. I gave/give them space and there hasn't been any outright fights. Just the disdain. But the new one just won't shake the street off. She's very easily agitated and spends a lot of time making my other two uncomfortable at the least. As of today, I've had to lock her out of the bedroom where she's been staying because she's started using the bed as a litter box. She didn't show this issue the first 8 weeks or so. At least I can't find it anyway. She is occasionally sweet and friendly to me, but that can change in a moment. I don't know what to do to make this situation better and am getting quite frustrated as I thought time would ease her personality and maybe we'd get a breakthrough.
Life was so nice with me and my other 2 before and I'm starting to wish this new one not here. No one's going to take her and I couldn't ask someone to anyway.
Taking in rescues sure isn't like what those shows depict. Any advice on turning this situation around and getting her to be more friendly? Or something that will make this experience better?