Hi guys! I really need advice here.
For the last 4 months we've been living in the Italian countryside, we moved here for work-related reasons and are living in a rented place. There are many stray cats around and over time we've become friendly with one. It started with petting, feeding her leftovers and got to where we let her shelter in our house during a storm. Now she comes and goes in and out as she pleases, is calm, playful and gives no trouble at all. We've stopped feeding her as we found it attracted other more aggressive cats, but she spends a lot of time in our house just sitting around, playing and sleeping, and sheltering when it's cold and rainy. We make it a point to always put her out at night though.
We have to leave this house in january and move back to the city, and though we've fallen in.love with her, we just can't take her with us. One among the many reasons being that she is a free countryside cat and could never manage in our tiny 10th floor city apartment.
Our landlord here hates cats and so she's sort of clandestine. We're worried she may try to keep entering the house after we leave and the landlord may hit her or worse.
How do we gently disengage from her over the next month before we leave, while also not just shutting her out now that winter's here? We do plan to take her to the vet before we leave and give her shots, get her checked and spayed etc. But how can we make her understand that we'll soon be gone and she shouldn't come to this house anymore?
Help help help!
For the last 4 months we've been living in the Italian countryside, we moved here for work-related reasons and are living in a rented place. There are many stray cats around and over time we've become friendly with one. It started with petting, feeding her leftovers and got to where we let her shelter in our house during a storm. Now she comes and goes in and out as she pleases, is calm, playful and gives no trouble at all. We've stopped feeding her as we found it attracted other more aggressive cats, but she spends a lot of time in our house just sitting around, playing and sleeping, and sheltering when it's cold and rainy. We make it a point to always put her out at night though.
We have to leave this house in january and move back to the city, and though we've fallen in.love with her, we just can't take her with us. One among the many reasons being that she is a free countryside cat and could never manage in our tiny 10th floor city apartment.
Our landlord here hates cats and so she's sort of clandestine. We're worried she may try to keep entering the house after we leave and the landlord may hit her or worse.
How do we gently disengage from her over the next month before we leave, while also not just shutting her out now that winter's here? We do plan to take her to the vet before we leave and give her shots, get her checked and spayed etc. But how can we make her understand that we'll soon be gone and she shouldn't come to this house anymore?
Help help help!