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Hi everyone, I've wanted a cat for my entire life, so the moment I finished grad school and could afford it, I finally got myself a kitten. He's a blue bicolor ragdoll, almost 5 months old and adorable! I live with my fiancee and we got him 3 weeks ago. However, I feel like I am getting a little too attached or sensitive to how much he likes or dislikes me? I've seen sooo many pictures of cute cat pictures on the internet and all the cool things they do with them - walking them, hugging, sleeping on their lap, high fiving - etc. I've dreamed about all the wonderful experiences I'd get to do with my cat.
For example if he sleeps in front of my fiancee's computer instead of mine, I feel like he likes my fiancee better and I get a little bit sad, or if I do that slow blink at him and he doesn't blink back, I feel like he doesn't love me. I know we've only had him for 3 weeks, so we're still 'new' to him, but he doesn't like to be on either of our laps, and he doesn't sleep in the bed with us, and doesn't do any of the head rubbing thing (to us or furniture). I'm reading about all these cat owners who have cats that immediately jump into their laps when they sit down, or they're always sitting/sleeping next to their owners and I just want that from Waffles He likes to be in the same room but not touching us... Will he ever grow into liking to be on people's laps or sleeping on them? Am I just being a little ridiculous about Waffles? I love him to death, and we play with him and he enjoys being petted and he does follow us around, and he plays fetch sometimes! I just really really want him to be ON me (lap, chest, legs, etc). Should I stop feeling 'rejected' every time he does something small like sitting closer to my fiancee, or choosing to sleep in the living room for a night instead of in the bedroom etc.?
Sorry for the long ramble! I just wanted Waffles for so long and I wish he knew how much I loved him
For example if he sleeps in front of my fiancee's computer instead of mine, I feel like he likes my fiancee better and I get a little bit sad, or if I do that slow blink at him and he doesn't blink back, I feel like he doesn't love me. I know we've only had him for 3 weeks, so we're still 'new' to him, but he doesn't like to be on either of our laps, and he doesn't sleep in the bed with us, and doesn't do any of the head rubbing thing (to us or furniture). I'm reading about all these cat owners who have cats that immediately jump into their laps when they sit down, or they're always sitting/sleeping next to their owners and I just want that from Waffles He likes to be in the same room but not touching us... Will he ever grow into liking to be on people's laps or sleeping on them? Am I just being a little ridiculous about Waffles? I love him to death, and we play with him and he enjoys being petted and he does follow us around, and he plays fetch sometimes! I just really really want him to be ON me (lap, chest, legs, etc). Should I stop feeling 'rejected' every time he does something small like sitting closer to my fiancee, or choosing to sleep in the living room for a night instead of in the bedroom etc.?
Sorry for the long ramble! I just wanted Waffles for so long and I wish he knew how much I loved him