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Foster kitten:
I just got a foster kitten who was transitioned from another foster home where she was with her sister and two brothers. (They were plateauing in their socialization, so the foster coordinator felt it best to separate them.) They said she is 4 months, but their previous foster mom thinks she is closer to 5, maybe even 6 months. She's social, but scared. She wants to sleenk away whenever people are just going about their business nearby, and will only come out when you sit near her and coax her out. Then she becomes a love bug.
Cobalt:
My kitten is 3 1/2 months old. I got him at 6 weeks as a foster I got him along with his two brothers. He had coccidia and as a result, didn't play much with his brothers and missed out on the wrestling, bitey stage.
Today I let the foster kitten out in the living room for the first time since I got her. I let her get acclimated a bit and then let Cobalt out. Cobalt went straight into wrestling mode. She puts up with it - she tries to ignore him. Then she either played or defended herself back a little. Finally, she had enough and started growling. Cobalt got confused, stopped, tried again. Got growled at. I finally pulled him away because I know the environment is new to her, so she probably didn't feel safe playing (although I got her to play with a toy just her and me after I removed Cobalt...)
I posted about a similar situation with Cobalt & an adult foster cat we were considering adopting. One person said the thought they should just work it out to help set boundaries for them in the relationship. I'm wondering if I should just let them work this out as well. I feel that Cobalt needs to learn boundaries and he'll learn that by having another cat tell him off. On the other hand, I'm worried about how she'll tell him off. Will she scratch him? Bite him? I'm also worried what if it mentally scars him and he starts being afraid of future fosters?
Also, is this normal for the foster kitten to just kind of ignore him and not really play back? Or is just cause she's in a new environment?
Lots of questions, but I've only ever had a single adult cat before! I've never had kittens, and I've never had two cats. So this is all very new to me!
I just got a foster kitten who was transitioned from another foster home where she was with her sister and two brothers. (They were plateauing in their socialization, so the foster coordinator felt it best to separate them.) They said she is 4 months, but their previous foster mom thinks she is closer to 5, maybe even 6 months. She's social, but scared. She wants to sleenk away whenever people are just going about their business nearby, and will only come out when you sit near her and coax her out. Then she becomes a love bug.
Cobalt:
My kitten is 3 1/2 months old. I got him at 6 weeks as a foster I got him along with his two brothers. He had coccidia and as a result, didn't play much with his brothers and missed out on the wrestling, bitey stage.
Today I let the foster kitten out in the living room for the first time since I got her. I let her get acclimated a bit and then let Cobalt out. Cobalt went straight into wrestling mode. She puts up with it - she tries to ignore him. Then she either played or defended herself back a little. Finally, she had enough and started growling. Cobalt got confused, stopped, tried again. Got growled at. I finally pulled him away because I know the environment is new to her, so she probably didn't feel safe playing (although I got her to play with a toy just her and me after I removed Cobalt...)
I posted about a similar situation with Cobalt & an adult foster cat we were considering adopting. One person said the thought they should just work it out to help set boundaries for them in the relationship. I'm wondering if I should just let them work this out as well. I feel that Cobalt needs to learn boundaries and he'll learn that by having another cat tell him off. On the other hand, I'm worried about how she'll tell him off. Will she scratch him? Bite him? I'm also worried what if it mentally scars him and he starts being afraid of future fosters?
Also, is this normal for the foster kitten to just kind of ignore him and not really play back? Or is just cause she's in a new environment?
Lots of questions, but I've only ever had a single adult cat before! I've never had kittens, and I've never had two cats. So this is all very new to me!