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I've been feeding a feral cat, Thomas, from my 2nd story apt window in NYC for 3 years now (I lower a box filled w food to him). The time has come to move, and I can't imagine leaving him behind w no one to fill my role of caretaker. My husband and I both agree we don't have the heart to abandon him, but we also have a new baby and not a lot of time to go through the socializing process with this cat. I picture putting him in a spare bedroom initially, and visiting once daily (although I know that number should increase in time). I've read up on the process, and have rescued lots of ferals as 4 week kittens, so I have a lot of experience w cats, I just haven't ever done an adult cat who is terrified and whom I've never had direct contact with. Am I crazy? I would love for Thomas to become a part of our family, as he has played with one of my cats who I've let outside, and I know he's very lonely by himself. I just don't know how much time we have to give him and I don't want his life to be worse off because I fail at socializing him properly. Does anyone have any thoughts on this? Thanks.