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I've had Ricky for almost a year now. He is a shelter kitty that use to be a stray. Approximately 3 years old now.
Ricky is unlike any cat I've every been around. He seems to have extreme separation anxiety and it is driving me nuts. I love cats and have had cats my whole life but Ricky is needier than any cat I have ever met and acts more like a cross between a dog and newborn baby.
His behaviors include:
Meowing nonstop if not given attention.
-from the moment i get home he is meowing constantly unless he is being help or in my lap. Not just small meows either, these are big almost yelling meows.
Must be either in my lap or being held at all times.
-seriously he never wants alone time but unfortunately i do!
Does not respond to any sort of training.
-i've tried saying "no" in a firm voice and removing him from table or lap when i don't want him to be up there and he will just back on instantly no matter how many times i do it.
-i've tried putting him the the bedroom and only letting him out when he stops meowing but he will start right back up when he get out,
-I have even gotten him a calming collar in hopes that it would calm him down and relieve some of his separation anxiety but to no avail.
-I will only pet him if he is being quiet or sitting calmly next to me instead of up on me unless invited.
-I would get him another cat to keep him company but he hates other cats and even sent my friends cat to the ER for stiches when i had him staying with her for awhile.
I'm seriously at the end of my ropes. He stresses me out so much and I spend most of the time i am at home just trying to train him to avoid these behaviors but there has been no signs of improvement in the last two month.
Actually there has been one improvement. he use to meow all night outside my bedroom door until i let him in. And I mean ALL night without stop. Since I got the collar and stopped letting him in no matter how much he cries he has stopped meowing completely at night.
I need help! Its gotten to the point where I feel like i am raising a newborn and its driving me insane.
I need to get Ricky more independent and I feel like I have tried everything. I don't want to give him to someone else because I just feel like it would make his separation anxiety worse but if feel like that's they way this is heading if I can't get him to change some of his behaviors.
Ricky is unlike any cat I've every been around. He seems to have extreme separation anxiety and it is driving me nuts. I love cats and have had cats my whole life but Ricky is needier than any cat I have ever met and acts more like a cross between a dog and newborn baby.
His behaviors include:
Meowing nonstop if not given attention.
-from the moment i get home he is meowing constantly unless he is being help or in my lap. Not just small meows either, these are big almost yelling meows.
Must be either in my lap or being held at all times.
-seriously he never wants alone time but unfortunately i do!
Does not respond to any sort of training.
-i've tried saying "no" in a firm voice and removing him from table or lap when i don't want him to be up there and he will just back on instantly no matter how many times i do it.
-i've tried putting him the the bedroom and only letting him out when he stops meowing but he will start right back up when he get out,
-I have even gotten him a calming collar in hopes that it would calm him down and relieve some of his separation anxiety but to no avail.
-I will only pet him if he is being quiet or sitting calmly next to me instead of up on me unless invited.
-I would get him another cat to keep him company but he hates other cats and even sent my friends cat to the ER for stiches when i had him staying with her for awhile.
I'm seriously at the end of my ropes. He stresses me out so much and I spend most of the time i am at home just trying to train him to avoid these behaviors but there has been no signs of improvement in the last two month.
Actually there has been one improvement. he use to meow all night outside my bedroom door until i let him in. And I mean ALL night without stop. Since I got the collar and stopped letting him in no matter how much he cries he has stopped meowing completely at night.
I need help! Its gotten to the point where I feel like i am raising a newborn and its driving me insane.
I need to get Ricky more independent and I feel like I have tried everything. I don't want to give him to someone else because I just feel like it would make his separation anxiety worse but if feel like that's they way this is heading if I can't get him to change some of his behaviors.