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Hey all,
I'm new to the forum and looking for help with my cat Minx. She was part of a bonded pair but her brother Jinx, disappeared 4 months ago. The first week she looked for him with a loud, forlorn howl from a small cat that doesn't usually even meow. After that she became withdrawn and timid. Both she and her brother were feral kittens found under a house, I adopted them but I did not tame them. They simply decided I was their's and followed me around ever since. Minx was always more timid in new situations, but she was the feisty one once she settled in. A small, fluffy, torby she definitely had tortitude. Both her much larger brother and the 60 lb dog agreed that she was the boss.
A few weeks after Jinx was gone we brought a lonely cat over from my parents' house. Purrcy was a stray that had shown up starving at about 4 months old. I had been living with my parents at the time and it took me a week to coax him someplace warm and a month to get him to let me touch him. That was 3 years ago and he's now a very large and lovable boy. My dad's old cat had died of cancer shortly before Jinx disappeared and Purrcy was lonely too. Purrcy and Minx were very well acquainted and friendly so we thought it would be a good fit for both of them. Purrcy settled in well, and they both seemed happier for a few days. Then Minx became withdrawn again. Now she's timid and hides. I usually make sure she's in the room with me at night, and once I go to be she relaxes and snuggles with me. I try to make sure she gets lots of love when she wants it and not force her when she doesn't. I knew she would mourn him, but I didn't expect this change. I don't know what to do for her. We all really miss her brother, he was a really loving and beautiful cat, but I also miss my wild girl. She just seems so anxious all the time, any ideas or insight would be appreciated!
Thanks.
I'm new to the forum and looking for help with my cat Minx. She was part of a bonded pair but her brother Jinx, disappeared 4 months ago. The first week she looked for him with a loud, forlorn howl from a small cat that doesn't usually even meow. After that she became withdrawn and timid. Both she and her brother were feral kittens found under a house, I adopted them but I did not tame them. They simply decided I was their's and followed me around ever since. Minx was always more timid in new situations, but she was the feisty one once she settled in. A small, fluffy, torby she definitely had tortitude. Both her much larger brother and the 60 lb dog agreed that she was the boss.
A few weeks after Jinx was gone we brought a lonely cat over from my parents' house. Purrcy was a stray that had shown up starving at about 4 months old. I had been living with my parents at the time and it took me a week to coax him someplace warm and a month to get him to let me touch him. That was 3 years ago and he's now a very large and lovable boy. My dad's old cat had died of cancer shortly before Jinx disappeared and Purrcy was lonely too. Purrcy and Minx were very well acquainted and friendly so we thought it would be a good fit for both of them. Purrcy settled in well, and they both seemed happier for a few days. Then Minx became withdrawn again. Now she's timid and hides. I usually make sure she's in the room with me at night, and once I go to be she relaxes and snuggles with me. I try to make sure she gets lots of love when she wants it and not force her when she doesn't. I knew she would mourn him, but I didn't expect this change. I don't know what to do for her. We all really miss her brother, he was a really loving and beautiful cat, but I also miss my wild girl. She just seems so anxious all the time, any ideas or insight would be appreciated!
Thanks.