Stray/feral Cat

lizardxinfinity

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Hello everyone!

A feral cat has lived under my house for about a month. We needed to get him out, he looked sickly and was about to die. He was blind in one eye, his ears were all torn up, and he had various cuts and scrapes all over his body. We fed him and slowly started giving him affection (the affection came after he started to trust us and would stop meowing at us). We decided to bring him into our home and call him ours. 

He stayed in our house where we fed him an nurtured him. He slowly started to get used to us. 

He has had a plethora of problems though. He is easily scared of everything. I live in an eight person house with five younger siblings ranging in age from 6-16 years old, plus two parents. This cat has developed a strong aversion to my Dad who was the one the cat trusted the most. The aversion spawned from my Dad taking him to get his shots and getting him checked out. After the first time, the cat was trusting of him a few hours after the ordeal. After the second, the cat will runaway when he sees him.  

One of his other problems is that after he eats, he hurries and hides under my bed. And this is after he eats anything: one treat, his food, etc. And will not come out for quite sometime. He also has a strong aversion to anything that is not wet cat food, excluding treats. The only thing he has even tried is processed turkey. Other than that, no dice.

In addition to this, he is potty trained. We have a litter box just for him and he uses it. However, he pees on clothing that we have around the house even though he knows where his litter box is. He does this at least a couple of times a week. When we catch him about to commit the act, we give him a stern "No." It doesn't seem to be working though, because he still does it. 

And last but not least, he will not play with anything but our hands. We tried giving him cat toys, tried the laser, tried sock on the hand, but he would only be scared of those things. He only will play when you are using your hand as the toy. He has extremely large claws and teeth from being abandoned for approximately 10 years (we found him with his flea collar still on, it was choking him. We got him seen at a mobile vet clinic and they aged him and guessed this). So it is extremely painful when he does this. I believe that a lot of his pent up energy is causing some of his skiddish behavior and we have no way of helping him.

I forgot to mention this earlier, but he is now horrified of going outside and only leaves our house for about five minutes, never leaving the backyard. He also never leaves my and my sister's room. He sleeps with my sister every night and only leaves to eat and use the bathroom. 

I would really appreciate any advice or help when addressing these behaviors to help my cat feel happy and not be scared constantly. Thank you for your time! 
 

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Poor baby.. he once had a home and then had to fend for himself for so long.  It's wonderful that you have taken him in.

It's not bad that he will only eat wet food.. that's fine!  Just keep feeding him that.

Regarding the peeing outside the box, has he been neutered?  That's very important.   If he has, sometimes cats will pee on soft things because of a Urinary Tract Infection UTI), and that could be causing the problem.  Also some won't wee where they poo, so another litterbox is the answer.

This is excellent guide to look through for litterbox issues:   [article="32366"]How To Solve Litterbox Problems In Cats The Ultimate Guide​[/article]  

Please do not let him play with your hands, even if it's all he'll play with.  It's a recipe for disaster!

I think he's hiding under the bed after any food as he's learned that, when fending for himself, other cats will be vying for the same food sources.  It will take time, but he will very gradually learn to feel secure in his new home.

There are some people in this forum that know way more than me about caring for strays - hopefully they'll be along soon.

It's wonderful that you have rescued this boy from a very difficult life.
 

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Thank you so much for helping this poor boy. It does sound like he's had a lot of adjusting to do. I am not surprised he's taken to hiding. Cats adjust to new changes slowly, so he's doing the best he can.

I advocate letting him adjust at his own speed. Talk to him whenever you feed him (and keep feeding him wet food; it is the best thing for him). Sit and read out loud to him if you can. Establish a routine for him and keep to it.

I would ask the vet about the peeing - just to make sure he doesn't have a urinary tract infection. Wash the clothes he pees on with a good enzyme cleaner ("Nature's Magic" is a good one).

Try to keep your room quiet for him until he decides it is safe to venture out and explore the rest of the house. He'll get there.
 

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That is so awesome that you took him in!  The poor guy now has a safe home!

I have a stray/feral that's living in my bedroom at the moment that I'm socializing, and he was very skittish.  But someone recommended a Feliway diffuser and it has made an amazing difference in him.  It's like a synthetic pheromone that is calming to cats and you plug it into the wall like those fragrance things.  People can't smell it, but cats sure can it seems!

A few weeks ago I couldn't even touch him, and while he's still a little skittish if I move too fast, etc, now he will greet me at the door, meow at me, rub against my legs, get up on my bed and sleep with me and loves to be petted.  I still don't 100% trust him yet, but what a difference!

And I know it's the Feliway because actually today I noticed he was hissing at me whenever I came in the room and would run and hide under the bed, and then I noticed the Feliway was half unplugged, so he must have rubbed on it.  But already tonight he's starting to come back around again.  It really helps his anxiety.  :)

It's supposed to be helpful with urine marking too.  I haven't had that problem with this guy, but it seems to have worked well for others from what I've read about it.

After I bought it at the store, I discovered it's cheaper online.  There's a spray too that can be used to spray on a towel that you can put in the crate for vet trips.  I haven't gotten it yet, but plan to.  :)
 
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