Hi everyone.
My friend and I, after much deliberating, decided to find a place together. We picked a terrace home, spread over four floors. It's fairly narrow but with lots of stairs.
My friend had her own cat, Morri, and I had my two cats- cat and kitten. Cat was always very chill, though very much so the bigger cat. Initially cat and morri were curious of each other and seemed to get along. Then suddenly it switched. Cat became hugely dominant, of the spaces and of the cats. Morri wouldn't accept his dominance and fought back resulting in physical fights, yowling, screeching, hissing, biting, etc. Morri became a recluse in her room, and cat constantly tried to get in. Morri is hissy and stressed, and cat just wants to get to her, all the time. Today they found each other and fought, he ended up with a limp for a little while and she had a bleeding chin.
We have taken so many steps, to reintroduce slowly, scouring the Internet for tips- from crating cat, to separating, and much more. It is causing a huge amount of anguish for my housemate, and for me as I am struggling to fix it. We swapped bedrooms as cat seems to be able to open my old bedroom door and escape, especially when Morri is out and about.
As a side- cat has also started "play mounting" kitten. She's about 18 months old, spayed. He doesn't try to penetrate but jumps on her back and theists on her mid back area. Then he bites her scruff and pulls her about the bedroom, she just lets him.
I don't understand the hostility as he was always such a mellow boy. Basically it's to the point, after two months that my friend is considering moving out, or perhaps I need to rehome cat, which is the very last thing I want to do
Help- feliway didn't help, I don't know what to do. He is staying in my room for now.
My friend and I, after much deliberating, decided to find a place together. We picked a terrace home, spread over four floors. It's fairly narrow but with lots of stairs.
My friend had her own cat, Morri, and I had my two cats- cat and kitten. Cat was always very chill, though very much so the bigger cat. Initially cat and morri were curious of each other and seemed to get along. Then suddenly it switched. Cat became hugely dominant, of the spaces and of the cats. Morri wouldn't accept his dominance and fought back resulting in physical fights, yowling, screeching, hissing, biting, etc. Morri became a recluse in her room, and cat constantly tried to get in. Morri is hissy and stressed, and cat just wants to get to her, all the time. Today they found each other and fought, he ended up with a limp for a little while and she had a bleeding chin.
We have taken so many steps, to reintroduce slowly, scouring the Internet for tips- from crating cat, to separating, and much more. It is causing a huge amount of anguish for my housemate, and for me as I am struggling to fix it. We swapped bedrooms as cat seems to be able to open my old bedroom door and escape, especially when Morri is out and about.
As a side- cat has also started "play mounting" kitten. She's about 18 months old, spayed. He doesn't try to penetrate but jumps on her back and theists on her mid back area. Then he bites her scruff and pulls her about the bedroom, she just lets him.
I don't understand the hostility as he was always such a mellow boy. Basically it's to the point, after two months that my friend is considering moving out, or perhaps I need to rehome cat, which is the very last thing I want to do
Help- feliway didn't help, I don't know what to do. He is staying in my room for now.
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