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I just joined this site. I have two wonderful kitties (I shared all about my kitties in the new member forum today). Anyway, Marcellus, who is 8 months old... is a beautiful, short-haired, black male who has this little morning problem. I've been reading from this site for some time and this problem has been addressed and I've tried many of the ideas...it's the morning, love bite problem. We got Marcellus when he was 8 weeks old from the Humane Society and he was fixed at 8 weeks old.
His mom was feral and we were told he had some human socialization. He's been a real good kitty although very shy, retiring, needs a gentle touch. He hates to be picked up and is not a cuddler but he does like to be petted for short periods and will give kitty kisses. He loves to chat too. He does like to be around people and isn't even afraid when we have a houseful of teenage boys. :-)
The problem....morning. He's extremely affectionate in the morning and morning only. :-) He's up very early and comes in purrs, rubs, purrs, rubs and CHOMP!! He's done this ever since we've had him. I've done the hiss thing, the "Ouch!" thing the blowing thing. I've put my head under the covers, rolled over, ignored and ignored, firm "No's!" I don't reward him with food as I feed him on a schedule now and wait a bit in the morning before I feed him. It isn't a food thing because I used to put lots of food out before bed to see if that helped and it didn't. And we do feed out cats before bed anyway.
I could keep him out of the room, spray water, use scare tactics but because this is the only time he is affectionate I don't want to do that. I want him to come up in bed and not be banned from the room. I like the other stuff, even early in the morning is fine, I'll take what I can get, but the biting has got to go. It's like he can't help himself. He'll rub so hard and purr so loud and then it's chomp time. You do the "no" thing, he jumps off the bed and then comes up and does the same thing again. It's not aggressive, I think it's because he loves me and wants me up but ouchy!!! He's always done this. We got our second kitty, Wallace, who is the same age, and that helped somewhat as they play but even that hasn't cured it. In fact, it's worse again. I think it's worse when Wallace doesn't want to play. Any ideas? He's a great kitty and this really is his only "problem" in my eyes. Thanks!!
His mom was feral and we were told he had some human socialization. He's been a real good kitty although very shy, retiring, needs a gentle touch. He hates to be picked up and is not a cuddler but he does like to be petted for short periods and will give kitty kisses. He loves to chat too. He does like to be around people and isn't even afraid when we have a houseful of teenage boys. :-)
The problem....morning. He's extremely affectionate in the morning and morning only. :-) He's up very early and comes in purrs, rubs, purrs, rubs and CHOMP!! He's done this ever since we've had him. I've done the hiss thing, the "Ouch!" thing the blowing thing. I've put my head under the covers, rolled over, ignored and ignored, firm "No's!" I don't reward him with food as I feed him on a schedule now and wait a bit in the morning before I feed him. It isn't a food thing because I used to put lots of food out before bed to see if that helped and it didn't. And we do feed out cats before bed anyway.
I could keep him out of the room, spray water, use scare tactics but because this is the only time he is affectionate I don't want to do that. I want him to come up in bed and not be banned from the room. I like the other stuff, even early in the morning is fine, I'll take what I can get, but the biting has got to go. It's like he can't help himself. He'll rub so hard and purr so loud and then it's chomp time. You do the "no" thing, he jumps off the bed and then comes up and does the same thing again. It's not aggressive, I think it's because he loves me and wants me up but ouchy!!! He's always done this. We got our second kitty, Wallace, who is the same age, and that helped somewhat as they play but even that hasn't cured it. In fact, it's worse again. I think it's worse when Wallace doesn't want to play. Any ideas? He's a great kitty and this really is his only "problem" in my eyes. Thanks!!