Being evicted have two cats

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I've tried to get caught up with the bills. It's been so hard since my husband left. Add work "forgetting to pay" my benefits for a month when I was on medical leave and things snowballed. I thought I had worked out payment plans with utilities and landlord, but everyone wants their money next week.

Power is being cut on the fifth and eviction will proceed around then too.

I've made the gut wrenching decision to call the children's dad. He is taking them in and of course with that child support is gone.

I'm not sure where I will go yet, but nothing I look at accepts pets. No one will foster them for me until I get back on my feet. What does someone do with their cats in this situation? I'm scared of the humane society. They are a kill shelter.My kids may never forgive me.

Honestly, if I am not able to care for my children though, I feel like I have no business caring for pets. It's a big feeling of failure.

Does anyone know of options for people with pets who are suddenly homeless? I'm open to suggestions.
 

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OH MY.... my heart hurts for your situation and reading your post. I am so VERY sorry about how life has taken this turn for you.

My only thought would be to call everyone I could possibly think of at this point asking them if they would be willing to take in the kitties until you get on your feet. Two cats, I assume? Family, friends, co-workers, neighbor's, vet's, and even calling a TNR organization group in your area. Believe it or not, TNR groups have the most wonderful and compassionate people on board and there may be a foster on their list willing to take in your two cats, temporarily.

Might you ask the vet if you could post a flyer in their office asking for someone to take the cats? You never know! There are many generous folks out there and someone may catch a look at your flyer/story and be willing to help. :cross:

Many, MANY vibes to you, your children and your cats. Somehow, you WILL get through all of this in time. Stay strong and all the best of luck to you during this difficult time in your life. :hugs: :vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes:
 
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Posting a flyer at work let's everyone know and I don't think I'm strong enough to let everyone know.
 

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What state do you live in? I know that Animal Rescue League in my state takes on crisis situations with pets. They usually have foster homes available temporarily, till people get back on their feet.

I would call rescues in neighboring cities, ask them if they have any kind of programs in place for your situation. If you have a car, it might be worth an hour drive to make sure your kitties are safe and will be returned to you.

I am so sorry about your situation, wishing you the best till you get back on your feet. I can't imagine the pain you are in having to give up your home and your kids. :vibes: :hugs:
 
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My friend's dad offered to take them. He is almost two hours away, but I could see them occasionally

I'm gutted over giving my kids over to be raised by the woman who broke up their family.

They're all asleep in my room, which is against the rules, and I don't care.
 

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Relieved to hear that you have found a temporary home for your two cats. I can only imagine how utterly hard this must be for you all the way around. I hope that somehow you can manage through this trying time AND find yourself a place too. I understand not wanting work to know about your situation but maybe there are some you could confide in? Some you trust and could at least offer you some emotional support. Opening up to other's sometimes allows them to share their nightmare stories of the past and how they got through it. I don't know - you have to, of course, do what will be easiest for you to handle right now. I get that and sometimes we just are not ready to go there - emotionally and even physically. What you are going through does take a physical toll as well as emotional, I am sure. :vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes::vibes:
 
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