I'm in desperate need of help. For about 5 months now my cat Joey has been viciously self mutilating his face underneath his ear. We've been to 2 different vets, the first only giving us a cone and sending us on our way and the other giving us regiments of steroids. The vet doesn't think it's a food allergy and refuses to give him any more steroids, and has no idea what to do with him. It has almost fully healed numerous times then he rips the cone off and rips his head open. He is in so much pain from the deep cuts in his face and I don't know what to do anymore. We've also considered declawing his right back paw but it's so painful to older cats. I don't want to put him down because I love him so much but I'm at my wits end. Any advice?