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scourtney36
Please help, do not beat us up. We recently decided to add a new kitty to our family. We had one cat, Jinxie - 8 years old, and two small dogs already. We did not rush and even selected an older kitten since we already had an older cat at home. When we adopted Lucy, she had health issues that were supposedly taken care of, they had her on the kitchen sink. We continuously heard this is typical of shelter cats. After about two months, she still had soft stool but was otherwise okay. Yes, we had a vet look at her. Sadly, my sweet Jinxie just passed away from unknown causes. He also appeared healthy and had no changes in diet , behavior or stool. We're completely devastated as he was our pride and joy. We now are feeling guilt that we caused this by bring in another cat and feel like we and Lucy are to blame. I'm afraid that I'll always hold this animosity and worry about how if I don't ever give her the love she needs. Should we consider returning her? There are things she does that drives us insane, obsessing crying and eating, begging and very needy, which is now worse for me since losing my baby. This also makes me feel terrible. I'm at a complete loss, I've lost pets before but I've never been this devastated, he was the love of my life. He was funny acting to everyone but WE got him, he could do no wrong. I just want my Jinxie back. [emoji]128542[/emoji]
Please help, do not beat us up. We recently decided to add a new kitty to our family. We had one cat, Jinxie - 8 years old, and two small dogs already. We did not rush and even selected an older kitten since we already had an older cat at home. When we adopted Lucy, she had health issues that were supposedly taken care of, they had her on the kitchen sink. We continuously heard this is typical of shelter cats. After about two months, she still had soft stool but was otherwise okay. Yes, we had a vet look at her. Sadly, my sweet Jinxie just passed away from unknown causes. He also appeared healthy and had no changes in diet , behavior or stool. We're completely devastated as he was our pride and joy. We now are feeling guilt that we caused this by bring in another cat and feel like we and Lucy are to blame. I'm afraid that I'll always hold this animosity and worry about how if I don't ever give her the love she needs. Should we consider returning her? There are things she does that drives us insane, obsessing crying and eating, begging and very needy, which is now worse for me since losing my baby. This also makes me feel terrible. I'm at a complete loss, I've lost pets before but I've never been this devastated, he was the love of my life. He was funny acting to everyone but WE got him, he could do no wrong. I just want my Jinxie back. [emoji]128542[/emoji]