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First, we live in an apartment and have two resident cats, which is one more than I really really want, but our rescue kitty wanted a play mate and I caved.
The apartment complex where I live has a large feral cat population - and someone around does the TNR because a feral cat got into our apartment long unrelated story - but her ear was tipped. Unfortunately, the TNR program doesn't stop these poor kitties from being hungry or from getting run over when they try to cross the steet... There were three ktten frm a littler that used to come around and we tried an tried to befriend them before adopting our current cat, and they were ony in it for the food... and within 6 months, 2 of three were found dead in the road, and the other has not been seen again.
Okay, current cat. When we first started feeding her, we thought she had escaped from my neighbors apartment because there was a carrier/trap out front, and food out by his door. We wanted to help catch her for him. Looking back, I believe the carrier we saw was actually a trap, and someone was trying to catch the cat for the TNR program. Well, we were not the only ones feeding kitty as food and water dishes began to appear outside doors so there was a constant supply.
My daughter works the 10PM to 6AM shift, and "Buttercup" was always there waiting to be fed. After weeks of this, she was able to pet Buttercup, and she determined that the cat was pregnant. She made the decision to bring the cat indoors and care for her until her kittens were weaned, and I believe the general thought process was that she would find homes for momma and all babies (after having them fully vetted of course). At some point during the pregnancy she miscarried at least one or two of the babies and ended up only giving birth to one live kitten who is now 3 weeks old. Buttercup has been inside with us now for 5-6 weeks. She has become pretty people friendly, she likes to be petted and does not run from us - she just doesn't care to be picked up. Unfortunately, she has made NO progress on getting along with the two resident cats. She spends 22 hours a day locked in the back half of the apartment. We lock the other two cats up for an hour in the morning and an hour at night so Buttercup can come out and play, get attention, and exercise. She is finally starting to show some interest in playing with toys... BUT, she still growls the whole time she is eating even if no one is in the room with her. If she catches sight of one of the other cats, she is out for blood. She throws herself against the screen, or the glass if I have the glass door closed. She escaped her enclosure on one occassion and had our ragdoll by the throat in an instant. She knows how to open doors. She frightens me because she gets so tense, you can feel the tension rippling through her body. In the evening, I usually let the 2 resident cats go on the balcony and keep Buttercup indoors with me. Part of her aggression is fear and part is territorial. I will sit by the patio door, and she will creep up very close to me and want me to pet and comfort her, but at the same time she wants to tear the other cats apart. Snowy is very calm around her and does not react to her hissing, growling, and attempts to pounce. Tati, the ragdoll, meets her hiss for hiss now that she has been attacked... but Tati is a pampered house cat and stands no chance defending herself against Buttercup if Buttercup should happen to escape her enclosure again.
We have been putting feelers out about Mamma and Baby, with pictures and background... and have had ZERO interest. We still intend to have them vetted, and were seeking a rehoming fee to help defray that cost, but I think we would have a hard time finding a home for the momma even if she were free to good home. Keeping them is not really an option. Our apartment is too small for 4 cats that got along, but when you have one that wants to kill the others, this just isn't going to work and while we are willing to pay to have them initially vetted, spayed, shots, etc., we cannot afford recurring vet bills for 4 cats. What route would you go with Momma and Baby
1. TNR is it too late for this since she has come to tolerate humans and we have had her inside for 5-6 weeks? Would we be dumping her? Would it do her more harm to let her have her freedom again at this point?
2. Surrender her to a shelter and let them find a home for her? I mean, it is possible that once her baby is weaned she will settle down more... I am scared to hang on to this cat and keep trying though... I already feel like we are responsible for her because we have had her this long, and I am not sure that even if we get her socialized with our two cats that people would be rushing to adopt her off of craigslist or something. I think the Shelter gives her the best chance at getting a home because people go there looking for animals to adopt. But what if the shelter finds she is too aggressive to be adopted? She cannot possibly be housed with the general population as she is now... even when she was outdoors, after we started feeding her (with all the food that was left out by everyone all the stray cats were coming around) but she kept them all at bay. She was not friendly even to one we believe is her sibling... he would hide in the shadows and wait until she left and them come lick anything she left over in the bowl.. it is so sad...
We made a previous attempt at fostering a cat from the shelter, and thats how we ended up with resident cat number 1. We don't l ike the shelter. There was much sickness there, overcrowded, and unresponsive when our foster cat needed care. So I don't want to foster this cat and ask the shelter for help in finding her a home...
What do we do? Also, now that the kitten is getting bigger, we want to start bringing him around the other cats so at least he will get socialized, but not sure if that will make the momma better or worse... She doesn't really like us handling him - but at this point I am sort of like "Hey, you know what, this isn't about you!"
The apartment complex where I live has a large feral cat population - and someone around does the TNR because a feral cat got into our apartment long unrelated story - but her ear was tipped. Unfortunately, the TNR program doesn't stop these poor kitties from being hungry or from getting run over when they try to cross the steet... There were three ktten frm a littler that used to come around and we tried an tried to befriend them before adopting our current cat, and they were ony in it for the food... and within 6 months, 2 of three were found dead in the road, and the other has not been seen again.
Okay, current cat. When we first started feeding her, we thought she had escaped from my neighbors apartment because there was a carrier/trap out front, and food out by his door. We wanted to help catch her for him. Looking back, I believe the carrier we saw was actually a trap, and someone was trying to catch the cat for the TNR program. Well, we were not the only ones feeding kitty as food and water dishes began to appear outside doors so there was a constant supply.
My daughter works the 10PM to 6AM shift, and "Buttercup" was always there waiting to be fed. After weeks of this, she was able to pet Buttercup, and she determined that the cat was pregnant. She made the decision to bring the cat indoors and care for her until her kittens were weaned, and I believe the general thought process was that she would find homes for momma and all babies (after having them fully vetted of course). At some point during the pregnancy she miscarried at least one or two of the babies and ended up only giving birth to one live kitten who is now 3 weeks old. Buttercup has been inside with us now for 5-6 weeks. She has become pretty people friendly, she likes to be petted and does not run from us - she just doesn't care to be picked up. Unfortunately, she has made NO progress on getting along with the two resident cats. She spends 22 hours a day locked in the back half of the apartment. We lock the other two cats up for an hour in the morning and an hour at night so Buttercup can come out and play, get attention, and exercise. She is finally starting to show some interest in playing with toys... BUT, she still growls the whole time she is eating even if no one is in the room with her. If she catches sight of one of the other cats, she is out for blood. She throws herself against the screen, or the glass if I have the glass door closed. She escaped her enclosure on one occassion and had our ragdoll by the throat in an instant. She knows how to open doors. She frightens me because she gets so tense, you can feel the tension rippling through her body. In the evening, I usually let the 2 resident cats go on the balcony and keep Buttercup indoors with me. Part of her aggression is fear and part is territorial. I will sit by the patio door, and she will creep up very close to me and want me to pet and comfort her, but at the same time she wants to tear the other cats apart. Snowy is very calm around her and does not react to her hissing, growling, and attempts to pounce. Tati, the ragdoll, meets her hiss for hiss now that she has been attacked... but Tati is a pampered house cat and stands no chance defending herself against Buttercup if Buttercup should happen to escape her enclosure again.
We have been putting feelers out about Mamma and Baby, with pictures and background... and have had ZERO interest. We still intend to have them vetted, and were seeking a rehoming fee to help defray that cost, but I think we would have a hard time finding a home for the momma even if she were free to good home. Keeping them is not really an option. Our apartment is too small for 4 cats that got along, but when you have one that wants to kill the others, this just isn't going to work and while we are willing to pay to have them initially vetted, spayed, shots, etc., we cannot afford recurring vet bills for 4 cats. What route would you go with Momma and Baby
1. TNR is it too late for this since she has come to tolerate humans and we have had her inside for 5-6 weeks? Would we be dumping her? Would it do her more harm to let her have her freedom again at this point?
2. Surrender her to a shelter and let them find a home for her? I mean, it is possible that once her baby is weaned she will settle down more... I am scared to hang on to this cat and keep trying though... I already feel like we are responsible for her because we have had her this long, and I am not sure that even if we get her socialized with our two cats that people would be rushing to adopt her off of craigslist or something. I think the Shelter gives her the best chance at getting a home because people go there looking for animals to adopt. But what if the shelter finds she is too aggressive to be adopted? She cannot possibly be housed with the general population as she is now... even when she was outdoors, after we started feeding her (with all the food that was left out by everyone all the stray cats were coming around) but she kept them all at bay. She was not friendly even to one we believe is her sibling... he would hide in the shadows and wait until she left and them come lick anything she left over in the bowl.. it is so sad...
We made a previous attempt at fostering a cat from the shelter, and thats how we ended up with resident cat number 1. We don't l ike the shelter. There was much sickness there, overcrowded, and unresponsive when our foster cat needed care. So I don't want to foster this cat and ask the shelter for help in finding her a home...
What do we do? Also, now that the kitten is getting bigger, we want to start bringing him around the other cats so at least he will get socialized, but not sure if that will make the momma better or worse... She doesn't really like us handling him - but at this point I am sort of like "Hey, you know what, this isn't about you!"