I'm brand new to this forum thing so I have no idea if I'm doing this right so I apologize if this is in the wrong area or just completely wrong and maybe you can offer me tips on how to do this right lol
Anyways about two weeks ago a cat just started to show up on my property and I've begun to feed him and we kind of have a little routine where he comes the same time everyday between 4p-7p for dinner. Two days ago and again today he actually showed up at 9a and has hung out with us all day near his spot((we have a fence around our back yard so when you are in my driveway you can see where the woods meet the fence before the fence turns to make the gate. You actually could walk along a small path that's kind of been made between the woods and plants so you can walk a border around the outside of my fenced yard and that's where he comes out from)) I placed a bowl of water in the driveway as well as the other bowl for food next to that and he comes out to them. He seems like a very unsure cat it took a full week for him to come out and go the bowls with us standing there. Before we would put the bowls down and then go in out back yard so we would be behind the gate. Now though for the last three days he comes right out of his spot and starts walking towards me before I put the bowl down which had me so excited lol. So yesterday after he ate he was walking around with his tail up making these happy sounding meows and he was stretching and rolling around and acting like he really wanted attention from me so I just stood there as still as I could be and he was walking around me in circles seeming like he may want to rub on my legs so I squatted down and reached my hand out and he laid down was rolling got back up and was circling me again lol so this time he sees my hand and walks up kind of slow but then hisses and swats at me!!! I promptly back away and he follows me it was just weird. Then tonight I'm giving him dinner and as I bring the bowl over to where I always bring it he hisses at me so I stopped walking and waited a minute then he starts meowing happy again so I go to put the bowl down and it sounded like a really deep meow almost growl but more high pitched than like a dog growl so I just put the bowl down and left quickly. It's like 1 min he seems friendly and the next he has me nervous that he's going to scratch me or something. Does anyone know what this behavior is???!! Is it just a very untrusting nervous unsure cat that is trying to see if I will attack him after he swats? Is he just very protective of his food as far as the way he behaved when I'm feeding him? Also my earlier story of him circling me and rolling around and meowing all happy and acting like he wanted my attention was after he had finished all his food and had a full belly
And we had moved down where we were no where near his bowls when he swatted and hissed at me after he walked up to my hand! Lol I'm just very confused by the behavior and want to make sure that it's just nerves and that it will get better over time when trust is gained and it's not a cat who could attack me lol. I have never cared for any kind of outside cat let alone a feral one and I could really use some advice and help on all these body languages and mixed emotions he seems to be showing me. Thank you for listening and thank you for anyone who offers se advice!!
Anyways about two weeks ago a cat just started to show up on my property and I've begun to feed him and we kind of have a little routine where he comes the same time everyday between 4p-7p for dinner. Two days ago and again today he actually showed up at 9a and has hung out with us all day near his spot((we have a fence around our back yard so when you are in my driveway you can see where the woods meet the fence before the fence turns to make the gate. You actually could walk along a small path that's kind of been made between the woods and plants so you can walk a border around the outside of my fenced yard and that's where he comes out from)) I placed a bowl of water in the driveway as well as the other bowl for food next to that and he comes out to them. He seems like a very unsure cat it took a full week for him to come out and go the bowls with us standing there. Before we would put the bowls down and then go in out back yard so we would be behind the gate. Now though for the last three days he comes right out of his spot and starts walking towards me before I put the bowl down which had me so excited lol. So yesterday after he ate he was walking around with his tail up making these happy sounding meows and he was stretching and rolling around and acting like he really wanted attention from me so I just stood there as still as I could be and he was walking around me in circles seeming like he may want to rub on my legs so I squatted down and reached my hand out and he laid down was rolling got back up and was circling me again lol so this time he sees my hand and walks up kind of slow but then hisses and swats at me!!! I promptly back away and he follows me it was just weird. Then tonight I'm giving him dinner and as I bring the bowl over to where I always bring it he hisses at me so I stopped walking and waited a minute then he starts meowing happy again so I go to put the bowl down and it sounded like a really deep meow almost growl but more high pitched than like a dog growl so I just put the bowl down and left quickly. It's like 1 min he seems friendly and the next he has me nervous that he's going to scratch me or something. Does anyone know what this behavior is???!! Is it just a very untrusting nervous unsure cat that is trying to see if I will attack him after he swats? Is he just very protective of his food as far as the way he behaved when I'm feeding him? Also my earlier story of him circling me and rolling around and meowing all happy and acting like he wanted my attention was after he had finished all his food and had a full belly
And we had moved down where we were no where near his bowls when he swatted and hissed at me after he walked up to my hand! Lol I'm just very confused by the behavior and want to make sure that it's just nerves and that it will get better over time when trust is gained and it's not a cat who could attack me lol. I have never cared for any kind of outside cat let alone a feral one and I could really use some advice and help on all these body languages and mixed emotions he seems to be showing me. Thank you for listening and thank you for anyone who offers se advice!!