Hi - I just joined this community because I have an issue I've never experienced before and would like some insight.
I've had cats most of my life, along with dogs, horses and other animals. Today, I have three cats, all rescues. I also have two dogs, a German Shepherd and a three-legged Pit BUll. The dogs and cats get along wonderfully. About a year ago, a friend asked me to take in a cat for "a few days" because the cat had just been removed from a neglect situation and needed help. For three years the cat lived in a closet because the elderly women owner couldn't handle the fights between her other cat and this one. For the first month, the new cat wouldn't leave her cat condo and spent most of her time hiding in her soft cave (a shell like bedding where the cat could climb inside and not be seen). When she finally decided to leave her condo, she was terrified of the dogs and other cats. The dogs left her alone, but my older cat ( a female around 14 yo) hissed at her whenever she came close. There have never been any real fights, just some hissing from opposite sides of a room. It took a few months, but eventually, the new cat - named Darla - learned she was safe and began to relax. She even discovered that if she climbed into the Pit's bed, he provided a nice warm body against which to sleep. She's returned to full health and appears well-adjusted and
no longer fearful. She still doesn't play with the other cats, but they manage to get along without fighting or hissing. Darla eats well, often stealing food from the dogs as well as from the other cats when they aren't around. She remains shy around new people, but otherwise seems happy.
Okay, so here's the weird new behavior part: she's taken to sitting at the bottom of the stairs at night screaming her head off. She's part Siamese and very loud. At first the dogs would go down to investigate and she would shut up until they came back upstairs. The other two cats sleep in the bedroom, sometimes on the bed, other times with the dogs. Darla could come up and sleep here too, but won't. I tried moving a small cat condo into the bedroom, but she howled all night long. I suspect she's lonely at night, but why won't she just come upstairs? The other cats ignore her when she does come upstairs and, as I said, they don't fight anymore at any time. Darla gets plenty of attention during the day and seems happy most of the time. But at night, once we go to bed, she grows impossible. It's driving us crazy and I don't know what to do. I even tried leaving the other two cats downstairs in their "room" (Our guest room is where they are fed and where we keep the box) but Darla still screamed all night. Does anyone have an idea of why she is doing this and what we might try to help her AND us get some sleep?
I've had cats most of my life, along with dogs, horses and other animals. Today, I have three cats, all rescues. I also have two dogs, a German Shepherd and a three-legged Pit BUll. The dogs and cats get along wonderfully. About a year ago, a friend asked me to take in a cat for "a few days" because the cat had just been removed from a neglect situation and needed help. For three years the cat lived in a closet because the elderly women owner couldn't handle the fights between her other cat and this one. For the first month, the new cat wouldn't leave her cat condo and spent most of her time hiding in her soft cave (a shell like bedding where the cat could climb inside and not be seen). When she finally decided to leave her condo, she was terrified of the dogs and other cats. The dogs left her alone, but my older cat ( a female around 14 yo) hissed at her whenever she came close. There have never been any real fights, just some hissing from opposite sides of a room. It took a few months, but eventually, the new cat - named Darla - learned she was safe and began to relax. She even discovered that if she climbed into the Pit's bed, he provided a nice warm body against which to sleep. She's returned to full health and appears well-adjusted and
no longer fearful. She still doesn't play with the other cats, but they manage to get along without fighting or hissing. Darla eats well, often stealing food from the dogs as well as from the other cats when they aren't around. She remains shy around new people, but otherwise seems happy.
Okay, so here's the weird new behavior part: she's taken to sitting at the bottom of the stairs at night screaming her head off. She's part Siamese and very loud. At first the dogs would go down to investigate and she would shut up until they came back upstairs. The other two cats sleep in the bedroom, sometimes on the bed, other times with the dogs. Darla could come up and sleep here too, but won't. I tried moving a small cat condo into the bedroom, but she howled all night long. I suspect she's lonely at night, but why won't she just come upstairs? The other cats ignore her when she does come upstairs and, as I said, they don't fight anymore at any time. Darla gets plenty of attention during the day and seems happy most of the time. But at night, once we go to bed, she grows impossible. It's driving us crazy and I don't know what to do. I even tried leaving the other two cats downstairs in their "room" (Our guest room is where they are fed and where we keep the box) but Darla still screamed all night. Does anyone have an idea of why she is doing this and what we might try to help her AND us get some sleep?