Tigger, my sweet baby boy September 3rd 2004-July 18 2015

He was such a beautiful a beautiful cat. I feel terrible about how he had passed and that I couldn't put him down or be there for him the moment he died.

I remember finding him the day he was born under my sisters bed when she was one or two years old. He was the first one I had grabbed when my parents found out the next day after I said something. He was tiger stripped of course so we named him Tigger or Tiggy for short. Born with 2 sisters and 3 brothers. He was always happy and I remember when we had gotten him neutered and his shots. He had his head on the floor because the vet we used to go to sent him home while he was still drugged up. He looked like a drunk who passed out sitting up.
Then I remember when him and his brother Pooh bear wanted to live outside. I wasn't too keen on it but I was insisted they'll remember where we live.
When we moved I was worried about when I didn't seen them, then a day after, they both had followed. Which they new where home was and where their family was. At this time we had them who was about 6 or 7 years now.
Long story short...he was a good hunter who always left dead birds or squirrels at our door step as an accomplishment and a proud cat. I will always love and miss him as my last words to him were. "No matter where you are, we will always hold you into our hearts, no matter where you will be, we will always love you." It was so heartbreaking for me when I found him. I do not regret cradling him in my arms crying. I am feeling the guilt that I could not afford for the vet put him to sleep and I'll always regret that.

Tigger sounds like a wonderful cat and it sounds like he was very happy with  you.  It must have been wonderful having him from the time he was just a baby kitten.  Right now is a very hard time and you should not worry about regrets but just honor him by holding his memory in your heart.  You did the best you could, and you know that.  He died knowing he was loved and with his people - not every cat is so lucky.  I know it will take a long time to get over him.  I do indeed hope he is romping across the rainbow bridge right now, pain free and meeting all those who have gone before.

I am so sorry for your loss. No words can take away the pain you feel. Don't torture yourself about the way he passed. We don't live in a perfect world. You did your absolute best for Tigger, and that's all anyone can do. He knew for sure he was loved, and he loved you right back. You held him, comforted him, and let him know everything was going to be ok as he passed. That's what matters. That's what you have to hold on to.

I know the torture of watching an animal die, and wishing a different decision had been made (for whatever reason). Ultimately, you do the best you can at the time. It does get easier.

Focus on the happy times, the wonderful life you gave him and the bond you shared. That's the best way to honour his memory, and it's what he'd have wanted.

Rest in peace Tigger, you beautiful boy

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Awwww. I'm so sorry Tigger is gone. Sounds like he had a wonderful, happy life with you. You must have loved him dearly. Thank you for taking care of him throughout his life. The world needs people like you that will share their heart with a pet. Don't let this stop you from making the lives of other cats happy. I know it hurts when we lose them, but it hurts more to see so many suffer without any care. And because we are going to be perfectly happy in heaven, I believe that means our special pets will be there waiting for us. You'll have him back in your arms again and next time, you won't lose him. Don't feel bad for not being able to take him to the vet for his last visit. You gave him a great life and that's all that matters.

*hug* It's always hard when a dearly loved fur-baby crosses the rainbow bridge. The (often difficult to see) silver lining to your loss is that dear Tigger is free of pain, and free to roam the great beyond. He knows you love him, and that you miss him, and he will always be with you in spirit.

We can't always predict, or control, when our friends leave us, but we can remember them for the loving companion they were, and cherish the memories made.

All of my heart goes out to you, in your time of grief, but I hope that you know that no matter what happened, you are not at fault. Tigger was called over the rainbow bridge, for reasons I may not know, but what I do know is that he will be there, waiting for you.

Blessings upon thee,

Raksha

Poor Tigger. I'm so sorry you lost him. He was a beautiful boy, he was very lucky to have someone like you in his life.

Big hug from me and all my cats.

Cherish your memories of him. I hope that with time they will make you smile.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Tiggy had a wonderful life full of love and having a family. He died knowing someone cared about him and would miss him as he goes over the rainbow bridge.

I'm sure you took great care of him and did everything in your power to be there for him and love him to the very end. I'm sure he knows you still love him and will forever keep him in your heart.

Please don't feel discouraged when you "aren't over his passing" since we never are. It's just that each day becomes more bearable and we can look back at the times we shared with our pets with a smile. You WILL faulter and sometimes a tear may escape when you remember him. It's ok. You are human and he was YOUR Tiggy and will always will.

Cherish the memories you had together and in that manner he will always live.

My deepest condolences and cry, scream, talk everything out. Don't bottle or hide it. It's ok to feel soooo much for his passing.

Again, my deepest condolences and hugs.

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious friend. Tigger felt the love you have for him. He knew that. You were the first human he saw. That is why he followed you to your new home. Tigger sounds like a special boy. BE grateful that he came into your life. 

Do not beat yourself up about not being able to afford a Vet. Tigger knew you did the best you could. He loves you as much as you love him. 

Focus on remembering all the fun and funny things he did. And the love you gave him, right from the beginning of his life. 

It will take time to grieve. Do not be concerned about that. He was your best friend. Give in to it when you feel as if you must. Do not be embarrassed. 

Try to visualize him playing in the Rainbow Bridge. He will be able to meet my Pumpkin up there. She was an fat, orange, long haired girl. They are playing together, among all the other animals up there. Theya re in a beautiful meadow where the sun is always shining. There are dogs, cats, squirrels, chipmunks, etc...all the animals get along and are enjoying each other's company.

Some day you will meet again. That will not be for a very long time. In the meantime, remember the good days..do not of on the bad. You will be smiling soon, thinking about all the fun you had. 

There are many people on here that care. Do not hesitate to contact anyone. 

(((hugs))))

Be sure that your Tigger was well aware of how much you loved him. He was a blessed cat to have you in his life and the kind of love you gave him. When we do all that we know how to do and all that we can do, nothing else is required. Rest easy in the knowledge that you provided this beautiful cat with a life full of joy and happiness. Just sending you lots of hugs. I hope you can find peace in your heart. You will never forget him and he will live forever in your heart. We are here for you,

Thank you all. It's just knowing that he was suffering when I was there is the thing that is killing me the most.

MoonSpirit94 said:

Thank you all. It's just knowing that he was suffering when I was there is the thing that is killing me the most.

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I know.  I had a cat that died at home once before I could get her to the vet and I always felt terrible that she suffered, wondering if only I'd been more observant, if I would have picked up on something earlier.   Of course it hurts to think of our beloved cats in any pain or suffering at all, but you must remember you did everything you could for him and he wouldn't want you to be beating yourself up.  He loved you. Try to remember the good times with him - that's what he would want and that's the best way you can honor him in your heart. 

MoonSpirit94 said:

Thank you all. It's just knowing that he was suffering when I was there is the thing that is killing me the most.

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Please give your self a hug and know you did all you were capable of doing. You had a special bond with him. Try to think about the good times, the good memories, the special moments. When I lost my soul mate cat, it helped me tremendously to write his life story. I did that because I didn't want to ever forget all the little things about him that made him so special. I put it all together in a folder, included some pictures and the Rainbow Bridge poem. That was in 2005. I still get it out, read it and take comfort in the memories. You might want to consider doing something like that. It might help your heart to heal.

I have plans on drawing a cat head and writing a quote of death/memories or some thing. I havent figured it out yet..

That sounds like a really good idea.  I wrote a lot and put together a photo album when my last two passed away.  It does help to put your mind into creating a memorial to your lost friend.  You can post a picture of it here when you're done.  I'm sure everyone would like to see it.

I'll keep that in mind

oh, Sweetie...

Sometimes we can not avoid suffering. I feel the hardest part of life is seeing someone we love suffer. It is sometimes what we need to go through in order to be a better person. That is caring and empathy. The world needs more of it. Think about how Tigger will make you a better person for having his love in your life. And think of how much better Tigger's life was for having you in it. 

Writing does help. Write Tiggers story! Write all about him, how you felt about him, and what you are feeling now. 

Sometimes writing things down helps so much. I know I do it when I am feeling down. 

Yes, do write a memorial for him. Include his picture. We will all see it and know what special kitty he is.....

I appreciate all of the kind words from everyone.

A wonderful tribute for a wonderful cat. Thank you for letting us know of this wonderful guy, my heart goes out to you for your loss and the emptiness in your house. Taking him to the vet would have been terrifying in his last moments, being at home was exactly where he wanted to be. Please know we all understand the pain you are going through and I want you to know that I am so sorry you have to go through this. Try not to dwell on the end but celebrate what you two shared. He sounded like a happy, well loved cat, and he lived his life to the fullest. Take care of yourself.......... RIP beautiful Tigger, may the hunting always be abundant so you can continue to leave your beloved family your gifts of love!

For Tigger


Listen to this video and shed a few tears for Tigger. I know I will.

My condolences on your loss of Tigger.