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I recently bit the bullet and adopted a cat! While I’ve had cats my entire life, I never had the resources to offer a kitty a good home in my adult life – until now. I ended up choosing a lovely, male, seal point Siamese who had been at the shelter for over two months! He’s ten years old, a bit chunky, and incredibly fond of being pet. He’s also, as most Siamese are, quite talkative. Which is fine during the day, I love our little chats. But at night he walks through the house meowing (and yowling) plaintively, and I don’t know what to do. He doesn't cry the whole night. He spends some time in my bed sleeping, and then some time in his bed sleeping, but then at other times he's crying.
He was adopted about a week ago, and while some of this could be stress-related, he was very relaxed when I brought him home. He lounged around in a separate room for a few days, but he started getting antsy so I introduced him to the rest of the apartment. He proceeded to lounge around in the rest of the apartment, baring his belly, begging for pets, generally being adorable.
I live in a townhouse set up, with paper thin adjoining walls, and I’m worried my neighbors are going to complain. If they do, I’ll be asked by the apartment complex to give him up. I can’t even consider the possibility. He was at the shelter for so long, has a terrible cold and conjunctivitis from there…
I also work full time and I worry that he’s lonely and crying during the day too… and despite my longing to keep him I can’t possibly force him to endure that if it’s not just a phase.
Is there any hope that he will quite down eventually? Is there something I can do to help him along?
P.S. The folks at the shelter called him an “undemanding but affectionate” Siamese – they had him listed as a good cat for first time owners because he is apparently incredibly low maintenance. I asked them specifically if he would be okay being owned by a full time worker, and they said he would. But I’m not so sure now. :/
He was adopted about a week ago, and while some of this could be stress-related, he was very relaxed when I brought him home. He lounged around in a separate room for a few days, but he started getting antsy so I introduced him to the rest of the apartment. He proceeded to lounge around in the rest of the apartment, baring his belly, begging for pets, generally being adorable.
I live in a townhouse set up, with paper thin adjoining walls, and I’m worried my neighbors are going to complain. If they do, I’ll be asked by the apartment complex to give him up. I can’t even consider the possibility. He was at the shelter for so long, has a terrible cold and conjunctivitis from there…
I also work full time and I worry that he’s lonely and crying during the day too… and despite my longing to keep him I can’t possibly force him to endure that if it’s not just a phase.
Is there any hope that he will quite down eventually? Is there something I can do to help him along?
P.S. The folks at the shelter called him an “undemanding but affectionate” Siamese – they had him listed as a good cat for first time owners because he is apparently incredibly low maintenance. I asked them specifically if he would be okay being owned by a full time worker, and they said he would. But I’m not so sure now. :/