Usually mom will let the kittens nurse after all have been born.
BTW you don't need to start a new threat w/each question, It's better to stay on the same thread so people who read it have the whole story and can offer better advice.
Just like to thank everyone for their support yesterday it was nice to have your experience and input when we needed it.Our Ella had 2 kittens which was a surprise but she was outstanding and has been the most caring mum and all are feeding well now and she never left a mess,it was copybook stuff.Will send some pics as soon as we can.Thankyou all again will keep you posted.Best catsite eva!