Still Missing Mickey One Year Later

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@Les26 Thank-You for your kindness. I am so very sorry on your loss of your Sebastian. How tragic for you, such a terrible accident.
I know what you mean about feeling better and than suddenly it hits you that our precious babies are gone. No, I don't think we ever truly get over their loss. We will always miss them and our hearts will always hurt. We just learn to cope with the loss. We have mo other choice.
Yes, it is hard when one of our kitties get sick now. I always fear the worse, and all the feelings of losing our previous kitty comes back.
I keep trying to tell myself that at the end Mickey felt safe and loved. He passed naturally at home in my arms. I keep trying to comfort myself with that thought. It helps ease the pain some.
I do hope he knew how much he was loved and still is. He has a special place in my heart forever. I only hope he knows that!!
 
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I think I may need to change my avatar picture. I feel that some members may think I am a male. The picture in my avatar is of my son with my kitty Mickey. It was taken when Mickey was ill. My son liked the picture so much he asked if I would use it here.
I think it is confusing to the members here, so I may try to change it.
 

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Hi !!!  Yes they are still with us and continue to be with us in spirit and they know how sad we are and how much we miss and love them. They are so happy now and at peace and they just can't bear to see us so sad.Unfortunately there isn't a lot they can do except to show a sign that they are near. The other day I was helping a customer with a hair color and she mentioned and asked if I recently lost someone dear to me. She said that there were three women in spirit around me. I didn't mention any thing or anyone that I had lost . I was so happy to know that my Mom, friend and aunt who had all crossed recently were around me and will stay with me. She made my day. I know that your dear precious kitty is around and is with your Mom. They are so happy and want you to find peace with them to know that We are going to be with them one day forever. Just keep that in your thoughts that it is never over between the two of U and  it is just for now that we are apart.  Hope this gives you peace. Yes the holidays are A SAD TIME. I remember just last year spending time with Mom and putting up lights. Time flies and fades some of the sadness, and you will be more at peace and know that your kitty is safe. God Bless U!!!!
 

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I love your post, short and simple and right to the point  Till We Meet Again !!!!!!!!   So True !!!!
 

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I am truly sorry for your loss of Mickey, he is in cat heaven playing with a catnip toy :) Please do not think of this moment as upsetting. Try to remember the good old times with him :) Its alright, Mickey loves you too! Dont let this one moment bring you down.
 

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I think I may need to change my avatar picture. I feel that some members may think I am a male. The picture in my avatar is of my son with my kitty Mickey. It was taken when Mickey was ill. My son liked the picture so much he asked if I would use it here.
I think it is confusing to the members here, so I may try to change it.
@Loving Mickey   Please PM a mod if you  decide you want to change it and need a hand. 


It's lovely to write our feelings about our loved ones.  So many people here know how you feel.
 

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Hi again,
I was just thinking of you and your sweet Mickey as my day passed recently. It's hard to believe it's been over a year since I lost my Rascal baby. It's been a rather depressing year all in all, but we've not lost any more. Three must've been enough for now.

 
For a long time I thought that I had changed so much from the grief, that it was going to be difficult for me to allow myself to get so close again..... Until last fall, when one scruffy but beautiful young stray changed my mind... I've got a post in the New Cats on the Block forum about my new kitty, Tangee.  http://www.thecatsite.com/t/311931/my-boy-tangee
 
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I remember your initial post as it was only two months after mine -- you're not alone in missing your wonderful friend especially during significant times of the year.  New Years is especially wistful for me -- the dawn of yet another year without that furball friend.  It's nice that there is an online place where total strangers can understand each other rather than be pushed away by people who can't appreciate the bond you can develop with your cat.
 
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conikat conikat Hi. So nice to "hear" from you. I think of you often and wonder how you are. I know how devastated you were over the loss of Rascal. We never truly get over a loss of our "special" kitties. I know my heart will always mourn the loss of my Mickey. He was so special that he can never be forgotten, just as your Rascal will never be forgotten.
Glad to hear how well Tangee is doing.
I will be sure to pop over to new cats on the block forum and check out your post on your precious new boy.
 
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cataan cataan Thank- You for your kind words. Yes, the holidays are so hard when our kitties are no longer with us.
New Years is hard for many of us, dealing with the loss of loved ones, both human and pets.
Some people think I am crazy for still mourning the loss of my mom, let alone my Mickey. I usually keep my feelings to myself, as no person truly understands.
Yes, we may all be strangers on this site, but everyone here seems to understand our pain and people here genuinely care. If someone posts a reply to one of my posts, I appreciate it more than words can say. It truly touches my heart, and means the world to me!!
 
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mani mani Thank -You so much!
Still trying to decide if I should change it.
Thinking of using a picture of my Mickey alone.
Will let you know, as I am sure to need help.
Not sure how everything works yet.
 
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noracatowner101 noracatowner101 Thank -You for such kind words!
Truly appreciated, much more than you may realize.
I do hope that Mickey is happy and playing, knowing how much I loved him and still do.
 
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G gladys Your kind words are so appreciated!
Yes, holidays are so hard without them.
I just hope both Mickey and my mom are happy and at peace, knowing how much I still love and miss them both.
The holidays this year were good, just not the same.
They never will be the same!!
 
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Thinking about you all day today Mickey, and feeling kind of sad.
I still miss you so very much, and just wanted you to know that. I do have 2 new kitties now, but I never want you to think they are a replacement for you. No other cat could ever replace you. You were just too special and so very, very loved. You were my heart and still are. I mourn your loss every single day and always will. I love my 2 new kitties also. I just hope you would understand that I was lonely without you and these kitties do help the pain. You will always have your very own special place in my heart and will remain there.
I love you my precious Mickey and will never forget you!
 

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Thinking about you all day today Mickey, and feeling kind of sad.
I still miss you so very much, and just wanted you to know that. I do have 2 new kitties now, but I never want you to think they are a replacement for you. No other cat could ever replace you. You were just too special and so very, very loved. You were my heart and still are. I mourn your loss every single day and always will. I love my 2 new kitties also. I just hope you would understand that I was lonely without you and these kitties do help the pain. You will always have your very own special place in my heart and will remain there.
I love you my precious Mickey and will never forget you!
As we begin to heal and learn to love again, it makes it even more clear that nothing and no one could ever replace such a kitty that is so special. 
 
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