Having an unusual name, I'm used to people butchering my name, so I say "Please call me Y."
However, my sister refuses to call me 'Y'. She still calls me by the childhood nickname. It was cute back then. I hate it now. I've told her a couple of times to call me Y, but she refuses, and my parents are in agreement with her. They say it is a term of endearment and sign of cultural respect.
I tell them it's much more disrespectful to insist on calling me by a name I am uncomfortable with, when I already say I prefer Y, but they say I have been "westernized".
How do I tell them my name is Y?
However, my sister refuses to call me 'Y'. She still calls me by the childhood nickname. It was cute back then. I hate it now. I've told her a couple of times to call me Y, but she refuses, and my parents are in agreement with her. They say it is a term of endearment and sign of cultural respect.
I tell them it's much more disrespectful to insist on calling me by a name I am uncomfortable with, when I already say I prefer Y, but they say I have been "westernized".
How do I tell them my name is Y?