taking in stray/feral for first time

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Sorry if this is too long!!!

A friend found a mama cat and three kittens in the grill of a truck.  They took the cats in and housed them in a garage in a large dog crate.  The kittens were only a week or so old.  The mama cat allowed them to take her and the kittens in, feed them, etc.  She also allowed children to handle her kittens after a couple weeks.  We were also told that she'd sometimes rub against the leg of one or two of the people feeding them a few weeks after that.

Based on this feedback, we decided we'd take the mama cat since it'd be harder to find her a home. 

Unfortunately, when we went to get her she had been let loose in the garage again so she'd kind of reverted a bit to her wild ways.  We were able to eventually get her and bring her home.  That was two weeks ago.

Once we got her home we initially allowed her freedom around the house for a couple days.  She'd hide very, very cleverly around the house and roam at night.  She definitely did not like anyone getting near her.  I did a bit of research and found sites that said it'd be better to give her her own room.  Our house isn't very big so we don't have a lot of options and the room she's in is a small bathroom.  Unfortunately, we had to kind of herd her into the room.  

Before going into the room we knock softly, make a very distinct sound we're hoping she'll come to associate with good things and feed her at regular intervals.  We did that for about a week and now I've moved on to sitting in the room when I can for about 20-30 minutes.  Like I said, though, the room isn't very big so it's hard to be in there comfortably and I don't see how we'd be able to move forward to the next steps I've read about  where she "might" come out and at least eat while I'm still in the room.  Only twice I've gone in and she hasn't booked it to the cardboard box we've put in there.

We really want this to work, but now we're worried that we didn't set her up in the right place.  So now we're considering making the room we keep her in our bedroom.  The only thing with that is I worry she might tear up our clothes in the closet or that there might be too much activity.  The activity would be normal things like going to bed, watching TV, getting up for work - not necessarily a lot during the day, just in the morning and at night.

Plus we'd have to get her there from the bathroom - definitely putting us back some steps.  The bathroom really probably is too small and I'm sure she's feeling very cooped up at this point.  I mean, it's been two weeks!

Thank you for taking the time to read this and any advice would be sincerely appreciated! 
 

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Sorry if this is too long!!!

A friend found a mama cat and three kittens in the grill of a truck.  They took the cats in and housed them in a garage in a large dog crate.  The kittens were only a week or so old.  The mama cat allowed them to take her and the kittens in, feed them, etc.  She also allowed children to handle her kittens after a couple weeks.  We were also told that she'd sometimes rub against the leg of one or two of the people feeding them a few weeks after that.

Based on this feedback, we decided we'd take the mama cat since it'd be harder to find her a home. 

Unfortunately, when we went to get her she had been let loose in the garage again so she'd kind of reverted a bit to her wild ways.  We were able to eventually get her and bring her home.  That was two weeks ago.

Once we got her home we initially allowed her freedom around the house for a couple days.  She'd hide very, very cleverly around the house and roam at night.  She definitely did not like anyone getting near her.  I did a bit of research and found sites that said it'd be better to give her her own room.  Our house isn't very big so we don't have a lot of options and the room she's in is a small bathroom.  Unfortunately, we had to kind of herd her into the room.  

Before going into the room we knock softly, make a very distinct sound we're hoping she'll come to associate with good things and feed her at regular intervals.  We did that for about a week and now I've moved on to sitting in the room when I can for about 20-30 minutes.  Like I said, though, the room isn't very big so it's hard to be in there comfortably and I don't see how we'd be able to move forward to the next steps I've read about  where she "might" come out and at least eat while I'm still in the room.  Only twice I've gone in and she hasn't booked it to the cardboard box we've put in there.

We really want this to work, but now we're worried that we didn't set her up in the right place.  So now we're considering making the room we keep her in our bedroom.  The only thing with that is I worry she might tear up our clothes in the closet or that there might be too much activity.  The activity would be normal things like going to bed, watching TV, getting up for work - not necessarily a lot during the day, just in the morning and at night.

Plus we'd have to get her there from the bathroom - definitely putting us back some steps.  The bathroom really probably is too small and I'm sure she's feeling very cooped up at this point.  I mean, it's been two weeks!

Thank you for taking the time to read this and any advice would be sincerely appreciated! 
Your planes sounds good.   You had apparently done quite some research, and you will surely succeed with time.    :)

I wanted to write, this revertation is NOT a big slashback because somebody made an error or such.   Her allowing and rubbing on legs of the rescuers is not her being practically tame now.   Its simple fight for survival - not HERS, but the children of hers.   She understood that  rescue of them kittens and her was the best practical chance for the kittens, and thus, she copied with the situation.  The welfare of the children is more important than "freedom".  Exact as with human moms.

Anyways, she is no hyper defensive aggressive - which also happens - so HERE you do have excellent chances of succeeding...

I will proceed at some other occasion.

Im sure others will also write some.   :)

Tx for caring!

Good luck!
 

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I'd go ahead and move her into the bedroom. There are over 30 ferals at our shelter. Half of them have been in a confined space - two large adjoining rooms - since around Halloween (they're in the process of being moved out of there right now) and have adjusted very well to periods of human activity in there every day. You want her to get used to people, and a bedroom where she'll have plenty of "alone time" during the day, but be exposed to humans doing nonthreatening things otherwise sounds just right.

She shouldn't destroy things if given a cat tree or shelf, plenty of cardboard boxes to hide in or chew on, and toys to bat around when she's alone. Making tunnels out of open boxes so she can move around while staying out of your sight will make her feel more secure.

The main thing you need is lots of patience and the ability to enjoy small victories . It can take months or longer for a feral to allow herself to be touched, and some never do. Treats are a great tool! It might take some time to find out what she finds irresistible. The greedier and/or more curious the cat, the easier it is to form a relationship.

Good luck!
 

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It is fine to move her to the bedroom, yet if you think she might hide, I would block every entrance to under the bed or if possible put the mattress and box springs directly on the floor.  Under the bed is the first place a cat will hide and it's almost impossible to get them out from under it.  Also block other small spots such as behind and under large dressers or book cases.  Do allow her some appropriate hiding spots such as a box turned on its side or the hiding box of a cat tree. 

Allow her time in your room for a bit longer before you allow her freedom to your home.  When you visit her, sit on the floor so you don't loom over her.  If direct eye contact upsets her, keep your gaze low or over the top of her head.  When you visit you might bring a yummy treat.  Something special such as plain cooked chicken, tuna or salmon.  Also Gerber stage 2 chicken/turkey baby food is a great training tool for cats.  They love it.  It's in a small glass jar with a blue label.  The only ingredients are chicken or turkey and water.  No added spices. 

Have you looked into a feliway diffuser?  They can really help too.

Thank you for rescuing her. 

Also has she been to the vet for a clean bill of health? She will need shots and deworming as well as also scheduling her spay.  You want her healthy first.
 
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