You and your husband did great! No experiences like that in your old life. Do you think that's why she was screaming earlier?
Best *vibes!* are on way!No she was trying to escape earlier for sure. I am scared to even think it but she seems like there may be another coming. God help me. I put the crate next to the nest area and I'm hoping to coax her in there
Do you have by chance possibility to get Feliway? Adapter or even spray? Its sibling product Felifriend is even better in such situation when you must handle a highly scared cat, but Felifriend isnt sold in the USA afaik.You're awesome! You thought of everything. Wish she were as friendly all the time as she was when she needed your help. It's just fear, I guess. I'm wondering if she'll become your barn cat after she is spayed?
I hope she goes in the crate for you too, but nothing has been that easy so far. I also hope she will be calm tonight. She should be exhausted. I suppose she was having after pains earlier. Hopefully you can get some rest tonight too. I'll check in with you tomorrow. You have handled all of this really well. I just continue to feel sad for this poor kitty.
I suppose you DO talk a lot to her in a soft, friendly voice, making friendly noses?