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I am a veteran cat owner. My last two cats lived over 18 years each with us. I have two little girls, 5 and 6 and we just adopted our new forever cat, Dr. Seuss. After having adopted two other shelter cats I felt confident in noticing the right sort of personality traits for our family. "Dog Cat" is the best way to describe our last cat, Pickles. On the lap the second you sit down, comes when you call, never hisses, scratches or hides under furniture, follows you from room to room just to be close and interactive.
We asked around at various shelters and foster homes if such a cat were waiting for a family and that is how we found Dr. Seuess. He was described as a total love bug. A people cat. Totally affectionate.
We went to meet him at the foster home which had several cats roaming around, dogs upstairs and bunnies hopping about the floor. Seuss had been picked up on the streets of NYC and then ended up at this foster home.
* He came when you called (kiss kiss sound) - he was speedy about it too. Right to you and wanting pets.
* he nuzzled against our hands, rubbed against legs and generally seemed VERY affectionate.
* he drooled with happiness.
* he then would walk across your lap but not sit on it.
Things I probably should have put more stake in:
* he seemed slightly more interested in the surroundings than us - in hindsight.
* When I picked him up he tolerated it for a 20 seconds and then wanted to get down.
* he rolled over on his belly and was playful but then wanted to bite you if you pet him.
We attributed the not wanting to be held to his crazy mixed up species surroundings and our newness.
We thought all in all - this was our kind of cat.
We brought Seuss home three days ago.
My last two cats came home and never hid - never. Not even the first day.
Right away they were sleeping on our beds and wandering around after us from room to room.
- Suess hid under furniture when we got home. I can get him out if I make the kiss kiss sound, but he usually goes back
- I coaxed him to sleep with us for an hour or two the other night but he hasn't chosen to do that again
- He doesn't enjoy being picked up
- He will come when you call him but doesn't seem to seem to seek out human interaction - well a little bit but not like we are the center of his world.
- He scratches and bites randomly when you petting him gently - maybe overstimulated?
With two little girls who are going to grow up with this being the MAJOR pet in their childhood it has to be the right fit. We can't wait a year to coax him to adjust and then find that he will never be a lap cat or never sleep on our beds or hide when friends come over. We do not want more than one cat. This is it for the next 18 years.
How do we deal with this when we can't wait months to see a change? (too hard on our girls to give him up months from now)
Is there any way to know?
Should I have figured this out when he didn't like to be picked up?
He is so loving, I was placated by that I think.
Thoughts?
Heather
We asked around at various shelters and foster homes if such a cat were waiting for a family and that is how we found Dr. Seuess. He was described as a total love bug. A people cat. Totally affectionate.
We went to meet him at the foster home which had several cats roaming around, dogs upstairs and bunnies hopping about the floor. Seuss had been picked up on the streets of NYC and then ended up at this foster home.
* He came when you called (kiss kiss sound) - he was speedy about it too. Right to you and wanting pets.
* he nuzzled against our hands, rubbed against legs and generally seemed VERY affectionate.
* he drooled with happiness.
* he then would walk across your lap but not sit on it.
Things I probably should have put more stake in:
* he seemed slightly more interested in the surroundings than us - in hindsight.
* When I picked him up he tolerated it for a 20 seconds and then wanted to get down.
* he rolled over on his belly and was playful but then wanted to bite you if you pet him.
We attributed the not wanting to be held to his crazy mixed up species surroundings and our newness.
We thought all in all - this was our kind of cat.
We brought Seuss home three days ago.
My last two cats came home and never hid - never. Not even the first day.
Right away they were sleeping on our beds and wandering around after us from room to room.
- Suess hid under furniture when we got home. I can get him out if I make the kiss kiss sound, but he usually goes back
- I coaxed him to sleep with us for an hour or two the other night but he hasn't chosen to do that again
- He doesn't enjoy being picked up
- He will come when you call him but doesn't seem to seem to seek out human interaction - well a little bit but not like we are the center of his world.
- He scratches and bites randomly when you petting him gently - maybe overstimulated?
With two little girls who are going to grow up with this being the MAJOR pet in their childhood it has to be the right fit. We can't wait a year to coax him to adjust and then find that he will never be a lap cat or never sleep on our beds or hide when friends come over. We do not want more than one cat. This is it for the next 18 years.
How do we deal with this when we can't wait months to see a change? (too hard on our girls to give him up months from now)
Is there any way to know?
Should I have figured this out when he didn't like to be picked up?
He is so loving, I was placated by that I think.
Thoughts?
Heather