I have a kitten named Muffin who is almost 2 years old. She was a feral cat who was taken away from her mother too early and is an extremely nervous cat. it took months for her to trust me. we haven't fixed her yet because it makes me nervous. i think it would traumatize her beyond repair (she hides the whole day after i vacuum) but i also know that there are a lot of benefits to fixing her. i have 2 other females who are fixed. should i wait until she is older or will it be too late? do i even NEED to fix her? i appreciate any feedback!