Hi everyone
Could anyone who's gone through a similar situation please advise?
I rehomed this older cat just over a week ago. I was completely prepared for the fact that she would be shy and it would take her some time to feel safe in her new home and around me. Indeed it has not been an easy week, which started with a very scaredy cat hiding behind the sofa until there was absolutely no sign of me around, and if I was around (even though I'm making a point of giving her space), she would constantly hiss and growl at me.
A week after, and she's very comfortable around the flat. She climbs over the tall cupboards, sniffs every corner of the flat, sleeps on a few different spots around the place and has even been happily playing with her toys.
HOWEVER, it's still a completely different story with me. Even though she will eat treats off my hand, she will always make a point of hissing at me when she gets near. The other day I thought we had made major progress when she head-butted my hand as I was feeding her some treats, but that was simultaneous with a hiss! Today she spent quite of lot of time looking at me and at what I was up to (I was cleaning the flat), however if I passed by her she would hiss again and again, although she hasn't been running away much. And she absolutely refuses the "explore my surroundings", getting closer to me the same way she explored the house. An example is my bedroom, which I have been keeping the door open so she can get in at any time, especially when I'm sleeping, and maybe start realising that I'm no threat.
I've read a lot of websites and blogs who all insist that I give her time, ignore her (especially not look at her directly as cats feel threatened by it), make a point in showing her it's me who feeds her and changes her litter, give her treats, read nearby her so she gets used to my voice... You name it and I've probably done it. But I'm starting to think that she'll never warm up to me and she will always attack me if I try to get close to her even in months to come. It's very frustrating.
The more opinions and stories I can hear here the more I will appreciate!
Could anyone who's gone through a similar situation please advise?
I rehomed this older cat just over a week ago. I was completely prepared for the fact that she would be shy and it would take her some time to feel safe in her new home and around me. Indeed it has not been an easy week, which started with a very scaredy cat hiding behind the sofa until there was absolutely no sign of me around, and if I was around (even though I'm making a point of giving her space), she would constantly hiss and growl at me.
A week after, and she's very comfortable around the flat. She climbs over the tall cupboards, sniffs every corner of the flat, sleeps on a few different spots around the place and has even been happily playing with her toys.
HOWEVER, it's still a completely different story with me. Even though she will eat treats off my hand, she will always make a point of hissing at me when she gets near. The other day I thought we had made major progress when she head-butted my hand as I was feeding her some treats, but that was simultaneous with a hiss! Today she spent quite of lot of time looking at me and at what I was up to (I was cleaning the flat), however if I passed by her she would hiss again and again, although she hasn't been running away much. And she absolutely refuses the "explore my surroundings", getting closer to me the same way she explored the house. An example is my bedroom, which I have been keeping the door open so she can get in at any time, especially when I'm sleeping, and maybe start realising that I'm no threat.
I've read a lot of websites and blogs who all insist that I give her time, ignore her (especially not look at her directly as cats feel threatened by it), make a point in showing her it's me who feeds her and changes her litter, give her treats, read nearby her so she gets used to my voice... You name it and I've probably done it. But I'm starting to think that she'll never warm up to me and she will always attack me if I try to get close to her even in months to come. It's very frustrating.
The more opinions and stories I can hear here the more I will appreciate!