Hi folks,
I've made a few post over at the Stray and Feral Care Forum, but I am pretty new to this site. Im not sure if Im posting this on the right forum so please forgive if Im not.
Im hurting inside right now and I dont know too many people that can understand like those that might frequent this site.
I've had JoJo since I was 17 yrs old ...over 16 yrs now. Hes been there through marriage, divorce and remarriage. Hes been there for me when my parents died. Hes been there for me when my babies were born ...he would lay beside me as I nursed. He's been moved from house to house. He's had to deal with dogs and cats that have come and gone and so much other crap he's had to go through with and for me. Never did he complain or become distant to me (one of my other cats holds grudges against me when I bring new animals in ...lol) He's one of the most easy going cats you will ever meet.
JoJos been more then just my pet ...he's like one of my children! I know this may sound strange to some, but its just how I feel. Now he is very ill and nearing his end. It started with rapid weight lose and a trip to the vets that showed he had hyperthyroidism. Started him on the meds and he got a VERY bad reaction to it that landed him in the hospital for a week back in Nov. Theres no other treatment option for us considering his age and other factors. Been caring for him and spoiling him as much as possible. Today I had to rush him back to vets ...he stopped eating again (he's down to 5lbs ..use to be an over 20lb cat) and drinking obsessivly. His kidneys are failing
The vet made it clear theres not much more we can do for him at this stage. I have to give him IV fluids everyday and see how that goes for the next few days.
But honestly, I know that the time is coming to make that dreaded decision. I hate seeing him like this ...my fun loving, easy going, cucumber loving baby is just miserable and wasting away. I use to joke that JoJo was gonna outlive me ...maybe just wishful thinking. I dont want my baby to go, but I dont want him to suffer either. I am grateful Ive had some extra time with him this past month, to come to terms with what is going on, but its still so hard. I know Im just rambling with another long post but I guess what I really want to know is ...
How do you let go? When do you know for sure that its the right time? I dont know if anybody can actually answer that for me, but maybe those with simular experience can give me some comfort.
Thanks in advance
Kali and JoJo
I've made a few post over at the Stray and Feral Care Forum, but I am pretty new to this site. Im not sure if Im posting this on the right forum so please forgive if Im not.
Im hurting inside right now and I dont know too many people that can understand like those that might frequent this site.
I've had JoJo since I was 17 yrs old ...over 16 yrs now. Hes been there through marriage, divorce and remarriage. Hes been there for me when my parents died. Hes been there for me when my babies were born ...he would lay beside me as I nursed. He's been moved from house to house. He's had to deal with dogs and cats that have come and gone and so much other crap he's had to go through with and for me. Never did he complain or become distant to me (one of my other cats holds grudges against me when I bring new animals in ...lol) He's one of the most easy going cats you will ever meet.
JoJos been more then just my pet ...he's like one of my children! I know this may sound strange to some, but its just how I feel. Now he is very ill and nearing his end. It started with rapid weight lose and a trip to the vets that showed he had hyperthyroidism. Started him on the meds and he got a VERY bad reaction to it that landed him in the hospital for a week back in Nov. Theres no other treatment option for us considering his age and other factors. Been caring for him and spoiling him as much as possible. Today I had to rush him back to vets ...he stopped eating again (he's down to 5lbs ..use to be an over 20lb cat) and drinking obsessivly. His kidneys are failing
But honestly, I know that the time is coming to make that dreaded decision. I hate seeing him like this ...my fun loving, easy going, cucumber loving baby is just miserable and wasting away. I use to joke that JoJo was gonna outlive me ...maybe just wishful thinking. I dont want my baby to go, but I dont want him to suffer either. I am grateful Ive had some extra time with him this past month, to come to terms with what is going on, but its still so hard. I know Im just rambling with another long post but I guess what I really want to know is ...
How do you let go? When do you know for sure that its the right time? I dont know if anybody can actually answer that for me, but maybe those with simular experience can give me some comfort.
Thanks in advance
Kali and JoJo